Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful

By Shilpa Cacho

It's time to stop dimming your light and start setting the world on fire. Join sacred disruptor & love coach Shilpa Cacho on a wild ride to self-love, epic relationships, and magnetic AF energy

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The podcast currently has 58 episodes available.

Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful episodes:

June 09, 2025 Rage Is Sacred: Why Women Must Stop Playing Nice and Start Speaking Up
This episode is not just a story, it’s a reclamation. Of power. Of rage. Of the voice so many women are taught to silence. I share the real-time moment of being followed by a man in my neighborhood, how I almost talked myself out of acting on what my body knew was unsafe, and why this moment cracked something open inside me, for good. If you’ve ever felt the heat in your chest, the tightness in your throat, the swirl of fury in your gut… but stayed silent anyway — this one is for you.

I speak about being molested as a child, the cultural conditioning that tells women to stay quiet, and how we must stop being good girls and start becoming powerful women who protect ourselves and each other.

This is what feminine leadership looks like. This is the heart of the work I teach.

If you’re ready to unfreeze, unmute, and unshame your voice, listen in. And if your heart says YES, DM me “Spicy Queen” to join the program that helps you embody this fire and use it for good.

Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/

Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
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24min
June 06, 2025 Bridging the Gap Between the Life You Have and the Love You Crave
If you’ve been feeling love is so close you can taste it but you’re stuck in overthinking, self-doubt, or old patterns… this episode will hit.
Shilpa reveals the missing link between doing all the healing work and actually receiving what you desire: partnership, purpose, peace.
She opens up about her journey, her clients’ breakthroughs, and why intuition not logic is your compass.

Book a consult call with me: https://calendly.com/shilpacacho/30-min-welcome-call
Attract a masculine, emotionally available man: https://www.shilpacacho.com/offers/38LLZoJZ/checkout
Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
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Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
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45min
June 03, 2025The Good Girl is Dead: What It Really Takes to Become the Woman Who Attracts Sacred Love
It’s the truth behind what it really takes to attract sacred, soul-deep love.
I talk about the invisible weight I carry as I guide my clients through their healing and what it stirs in my own nervous system as a coach, mother, and woman healing in real time.
We go deep into:
The real reason your inner child healing isn’t translating into results in love
How your nervous system is wired for predictability even if that means settling
Why co-regulation and emotional safety are the missing links in most healing journeys
The unseen emotional labor of being the “good girl”
And why this work is not just about love it’s about legacy
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work but still feel blocked in dating or relationships… this one will land in your gut.
📥 If your heart is pounding and you’re ready to go deeper, message me on Instagram or book a consult. There’s space for you here.
https://calendly.com/shilpacacho/30-min-welcome-call
Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
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Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
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33min
June 02, 2025Your Feminine Power Can Rewire a Man’s Heart
I unpack the real reason so many smart, self-aware women still feel stuck, rejected, or frustrated in love—even after all the healing, therapy, and “doing the work.”
We talk about:
The hidden ways you still pedestal men and perform in dating
Why self-trust—not more analysis—is your missing link
How feminine energy awakens masculine leadership (without chasing, fixing, or overfunctioning)
The biology of emotional shutdown in men (and how to stop making it about you)
Why solo healing won’t get you to sacred love—and what actually will
If you’re ready to attract a man who meets your depth and holds your fire… this episode is your wake-up call.
We start Attract Your Soulhusband on June 11th—listen until the end for how to join us. Book your consult call with me to apply: https://calendly.com/shilpacacho/30-min-welcome-call
👑 It’s your time, Queen.

Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
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Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
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May 23, 2025Are You a Safe Space for Love?
What does it really mean to be a safe space for a man—and for yourself?
Shilpa unpacks the deeper layers of emotional safety, feminine power, and the kind of devotion that transforms not just your relationships, but your entire life.
She shares why healing alone isn’t the end of the journey. It’s just the beginning.
You’ll hear:
Why controlling, fixing, and “mothering” men never leads to real intimacy
How many women use high standards as a mask for fear and unworthiness
The truth about the “69% of conflict is unresolvable” stat and Shilpa’s hot take
What most women get wrong after years of healing (and how to break the bubble)
The difference between projecting your pain and embodying your power in love
This one’s for the woman who’s done the workbut is ready to live it.
✨ If you’re desiring soul-deep love, the kind that feels like God's love in human form, 'Attract Your Soulhusband' starts June 11th. DM Shilpa or book your free consult here https://calendly.com/shilpacacho/30-min-welcome-call

Also, don’t miss the free First Date to Forever Masterclass—https://www.shilpacacho.com/offers/38LLZoJZ/checkout
Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/

Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
https://shilpacacho.mykajabi.com/offers/Xx2o46mc/checkout
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51min
May 20, 2025The Hidden Ways Shame Blocks Love (and How to Break Free)
Shilpa share how shame keeps you blocked in love
From the darkest days of April to a full-body awakening, she shares how healing shame in the body is the missing piece for high-achieving women stuck in half-hearted love, people-pleasing, and emotional self-abandonment.
You’ll hear:
How she reprogrammed her nervous system to receive from men instead of resent them
The truth about why powerful women push love away
Why fixing men and staying silent are trauma responses (and how she shifted it in real time with her husband)
How somatic healing and mentorship helped her reclaim her magic
And what it really takes to be the kind of woman who calls in a man who protects, leads, and deeply sees you
If you’ve ever found yourself over-giving, over-functioning, or waiting for permission to finally feel loved—you need this one.
This is the summer of love.
Not just any love—the kind that meets your power and your softness.
And it starts with how you treat you.
🎧 Listen now—and if you’re ready to step into this version of you, apply to join Shilpa’s signature program, Attract Your Soulhusband: https://www.shilpacacho.com/attractyoursoulhusband
Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/

Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
https://shilpacacho.mykajabi.com/offers/Xx2o46mc/checkout
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May 16, 2025 If You’re Scared to Start Over—Listen to This First
Have you ever stayed too long in something—telling yourself it wasn’t that bad—while secretly dying inside?
In this episode, I’m telling the unfiltered story of the man I thought I’d leave my marriage for… and how God used that situation to shatter my illusions, not to shame me—but to set me free.
This is for the woman who:
– Feels the ache of something more, but keeps talking herself out of it
– Is waiting for the right moment to leave the job, the relationship, the life that’s quietly crushing her
– Still hopes that maybe someone else will give her permission to leap
I talk about judgment, shadow, power, and how our fear disguises itself as logic. I share the signs I ignored, the justifications I made, and the truth I had to face: you don’t need a man, a job offer, or a breakdown to give yourself permission to begin again.
Plus, I share a powerful moment from a client on the brink of change that will leave you breathless.
If you’ve been outsourcing your joy, your decisions, your power—this is your wake-up call.

Get free Access to my free masterclass: First Date to Forever (until May 31)
https://www.shilpacacho.com/offers/38LLZoJZ/checkout
Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/

Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
https://shilpacacho.mykajabi.com/offers/Xx2o46mc/checkout

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34min
May 09, 2025 High Achievers, Low Standards: Why Smart Women Still Settle in Love
What happens when you know better… but still find yourself making messy, embarrassing choices in your love life?

Shilpa pulls back the curtain on the choices she's ashamed of, the cheating she once justified, and the love she thought she had—but didn’t. If you've ever felt humiliated by your own patterns or wondered how you can be so successful in life but still feel like a fool in love—this one will crack you open.
She shares:
— The hidden shame behind choosing emotionally unavailable men
— How high-achieving women unconsciously choose survival over soul evolution
— Why somatic work—not just mindset shifts—is the real key to lasting love
— A personal story she’s never told publicly… until now
— What she would say to the man who once said, “I thought you’d wait for me”
— And why your embarrassing choices might be the exact portal to your freedom
This is for the woman who is done performing and pretending. You’re not broken—you’re just evolving. Come home to the version of you who’s ready for real love.
👑 Join the free First Date to Forever masterclass on May 15th — your portal to to forever love

Save your Spot here : https://www.shilpacacho.com/first-date-to-forever

Become the Confident woman who never settles: https://shilpacacho.mykajabi.com/spicyqueenacademy

Attract Your Soulhusband: https://shilpacacho.mykajabi.com/attractyoursoulhusband
Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/

Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
https://shilpacacho.mykajabi.com/offers/Xx2o46mc/checkout

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50min
May 02, 2025 Intentional Dating Is a Revolution: Inside the Vision Behind Ishq
“Dating apps suck.”
That’s the DM I get every week — from women who are done with shallow swiping, ghosting, and feeling like just another profile in a sea of dead-end chats.
Today, I’m joined by Nisha P., co-founder of Ishq, a revolutionary new dating app designed for intentional South Asians who are done with mindless matching and ready for meaningful, lasting love. Ishq is changing the way South Asians date, and helping people connect deeply and meaningfully. It’s an invite only community and dating app for high intentioned South Asians. They personally vet each application, with a focus on quality over quantity. Unique features like having only one match at a time helps reduce the noise and focus your attention on one person at a time.

We dive deep into:
– Why most apps are designed to keep you single
– How Ishq’s “no swiping, one match at a time” model rewires your dating experience
– What intentional dating really means — and the internal work required
– Nisha’s personal journey of turning frustration into innovation
– How tech can support deep connection when designed with purpose
If you’re craving a partner who values commitment, communication, and connection — this episode is a must. And yes, we’re linking the app below, because your Soulhusband might just be one FaceTime call away.

For my ladies who are done with lame first dates and ready for forever love, watch my free masterclass
First Date to Forever Masterclass: https://fathom.video/share/h_LNwLQ8Sxk37cFsrR47V9p2sHaLxmrA

Apply to be on ISHQ: findishq.com/apply
Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/

Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
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29min
April 23, 2025 Why Get Married If Everyone’s Cheating?
In this brutally honest episode, Shilpa sits down with her husband Isaac for a no-holds-barred conversation about the silent cracks that form in even the most loving relationships — and how easy it is to cross the line without even realizing it.From the subtle thrill of male attention to emotional infidelity, unresolved insecurity, and the real reason women chase “bad boy energy,” they pull back the curtain on the truth behind cheating and validation. Shilpa shares her own past with infidelity, how she rebuilt her integrity, and how this nearly repeated itself in her current marriage — until radical honesty and inner work changed everything.Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge what you believe about loyalty, love, and what it really takes to keep passion and trust alive in long-term partnership.⚡️Real stories. Real emotions. No filters.This is the conversation most couples are too afraid to have — but desperately need.

Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho
https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/

Get my free course: Stop chasing men who string you along with Situationship Detox
https://shilpacacho.mykajabi.com/offers/Xx2o46mc/checkout

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51min

FAQs about Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful:

How many episodes does Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful have?

The podcast currently has 58 episodes available.