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We are very comfortable pouring our creative energy into our work, but there is an opportunity for expansion in focusing that into our relationship with the feminine.
What is a good date night? What is the best date night ideas for birthdays? The best date night ideas for anniversary?
While this episode is based mostly on my own experience as a heterosexual man in a relationship with a heterosexual woman, there is much to be gleaned from all permutations, especially a heterosexual woman in a relationship with a heterosexual man.
Truthfully, most men that I work with are asking, "How to be more masculine in a relationship?"
This might come out as, how to make my wife happy?, how to make my husband happy?, how to be more romantic with your girlfriend?, how to be more romantic with your boyfriend?, how to be more romantic with your wife?, how to be more romantic with your husband?, how to increase sexual energy. However, the basic questions are the same, and much of it comes down to understanding the essence of your self as divinely masculine, and perhaps not so much culturally masculine.
We have a tendency to see the date night as 1) a stand-alone experience that is separated from the rest of the relationship and that 2) is something that derives its power from the physical experience. This is a problem because it separates things in the relationship and attracts in the idea of playing inauthentic roles to each other. It also gives the power away to the experience and is not dynamic nor sustainable (if it is only about WHAT you do on a date night, things will get stale fast, and you will both be looking for your fulfillment externally). By seeing this as an internal process of authenticity and connection, the date night experience fits into the ideal relationship more easefully.
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