The Grace Fueled Wife | Communication, Intimacy, Separation, Reconciliation, Christian Marriage

E189// Is that normal? Discerning through marital disappointment vs. destructive abuse


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Understanding Emotional Abuse: Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages

In this episode of the Grace Fueled Wife Podcast, I'm delving into the critical difference between disappointing and destructive marriages. Building on last week's discussion about emotional abuse, I reference Leslie Vernick's book, 'Emotionally Destructive Marriage,' to provide clarity. We explore what it means to feel emotionally unsafe and identify when it crosses into abuse. We'll also discuss the importance of fully disclosing your situation to a therapist for proper guidance and support, even if it means going alone. This episode aims to offer insights and resources for those struggling in emotionally abusive relationships and emphasizes that you do not have to live in such a nightmare, even as a Christian. Stay tuned as we navigate these heavy but essential topics together.

 

00:00 Introduction: The Fear of Speaking Up

00:29 Understanding Emotional Abuse

02:44 Disappointing vs. Destructive Marriages

03:36 Real-Life Examples and Quotes

05:24 Therapist's Role and Client Disclosure

10:59 Mandated Reporting and Emotional Safety

15:14 Concluding Thoughts and Resources




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