Parenting is holy, humbling work. Today we’re taking an honest look at the ways we, as moms and dads, can unintentionally provoke or discourage the very children we love. Scripture warns us against this for a reason—because our words, our tone, and even the atmosphere of our homes form the world our kids grow up in.

In this episode, we walk through many common ways parents can wound a child’s heart, which are organized into six categories.

Our hope isn’t to shame anyone, but to offer a path toward healing and healthier connection. Trust us, we're still on this journey with you, learning and growing. I (Kayla) was genuinely convicted while editing this episode!

Bible Verses Mentioned:

• Ephesians 6:4 - do not provoke your children
• Colossians 3:21 - do not embitter
• Proverbs 22:24 - do not make friends with a hot-tempered man
• Hebrews 12:11 - discipline produces righteousness, peace
• James 5:12 - let your yes be yes and your no be no

6 Categories of Provocation Discussed Today:

• Marriage and Home Environment
• Discipline and Consistency
• Communication and Respect
• Emotional and Relational Harm
• Boundaries and Freedom
• Role Reversals and Broken Trust

We now have more detailed show notes available on our website's blog, including the full list we discussed today in these categories.

Resources That Helped Shape Our Conversation:

• Desiring God - How Do I Not Provoke My Children?
• Apostolic Christian Counseling & Family Services - 25 Ways to Provoke Anger
• Our own stories and experiences

Recommended:

• Ginger Hubbard - Her books and podcast are all encouraging resources.
• How To Not Provoke Your Children - A sermon by Danny Johnson

Thank you for being here today.

YOU ARE

WORTH what IT takes to heal,

AND you are NEVER ALONE.

Love,

Kayla and June