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If you haven't been dissecting (or lusting!) over Sabrina Carpenter's new album cover (linked below), then where have you been, loca?! It's got everyone talking, so we had to talk about it. From whether or not it's effective satire to how effective it is as kink representation to how some women are held to higher standards, we have a lot to say. We also dig into:
😓 How all of this is a cycle, and we will be having the same conversations forever
🫦 Some of us like to be subs, okay!
💦 The lack of understanding when it comes to kink
💪🏽 Just how feminist owning your sexuality is
A few of the reads we mention this week:
Sabrina Carpenter's album cover
The lolitafication of Sabrina Carpenter
It's true: Gen Z is having way less sex
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Talking about money with your partner can feel awkward, tense or even taboo—but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, we unpack the most heated financial debates couples face, from splitting the bill on the first date to dealing with income imbalances. Whether you’re just starting out or have been together for years, or even if you're just friends, we share practical tips, our own experiences, and a little research to expand on why this matters and why you gotta be talking about it. We dig into:
💰 Why is money and dating still such a spicy topic?
💅🏽 Just how much some of us spend getting ready for a date
👩🏽❤️👨🏽 What about when it comes to treating friends?
🤑 When to start talking finances
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If we look back at the long and varied history behind divorce and marriage, what do they really stand for? And who benefits more — men or women? In this episode, we dive deep into the institution with journalist and author Haley Mlotek on the occasion of her new book, No Fault: A Memoir of Romance & Divorce. Whether or not you've been there before, it'll ring true when it comes to everything from societal expectations to what we really want and need from relationships. We talk about:
⏳ The hidden histories behind commitment
💰 Is marriage just a business arrangement?
👩🏽❤️👨🏽 How men thrive while married, and women totally do not
💔 Do we ever really heal from heartbreak?
🙏🏽 Relationships take work — and that isn't a bad thing
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Instagram: @haleymlotek
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What does it really feel like to always be the single friend? The plus-one to everyone else’s milestones? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the grief, freedom, envy and unexpected joy that come with being the chronically single friend, surrounded by couples. If you’ve ever felt left behind, left out, or like you're the only one still figuring it out — this one’s for you. We talk about:
💔 Navigating loneliness and social pressure in a coupled-up world
⏳ Why singledom isn’t a “waiting room” for love
🪞 Grieving the life you thought you'd have — while still building a full, joyful one
🌱 Finding meaning, connection, and identity outside of romantic relationships
Oh, and for a little extra lit, cut to here and here for some of those stats we get into in this episode about marriage and women's work!
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This week, we sit down with Toronto singer Jennarie to talk about self-love, body positivity, and what it’s really like to go viral on TikTok. From navigating confidence in the digital age to embracing your body at every stage, we’re diving into what it means to truly take up space—online and IRL. We get into:
✨ The highs and lows of going viral
💖 Embracing body positivity in an image-obsessed world
📱 How social media shapes self-love (for better or worse)
🎶 Finding power in music, creativity, and self-expression
🤳 Dealing with internet trolls and protecting your peace
Plus, Jennarie shares her personal journeys of self-acceptance and how she's learned to love herself—on her own terms.
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Instagram: @jennarie
TikTok: @jennariemusic
Listen to her music: Spotify
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This week, we’re throwing up the red flags 🚩 instead of ignoring them, and diving into the all-too-relatable chaos of dating in the apps era. From future husbands in your DMs to full-on catfishers using AI avatars, we’re breaking down the subtle, sinister, and straight-up cringe behaviour that should make you run (not text back). But don’t worry! It’s not all doomscrolling and disappointment. We’re also spotlighting the yellow and green flags that signal someone might actually be worth a second date (or at least a reply). We’re calling out:
🫣 “Not political” on the profile? Why that’s a 🚩 with extra bold font
🍆 When the convo goes sexual WAY too fast (and how to ghost with grace)
💘 Lovebombing vs. real enthusiasm, because there’s a difference and it matters
🛫 Future-tripping on date one (sir, I just learned your last name)
🤖 AI-generated profile pics and other forms of high-effort deception
💚 And the rare green flags that make us believe… maybe love ISN’T dead? Because if you're gonna waste your time, at least make it entertaining… and maybe even a little hopeful.
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This week, we're ditching the commitment-phobes and diving headfirst into the glorious, messy, and occasionally questionable world of being a SEASONAL HOE — and making the case for freedom, fun, and not having to explain your life choices to anyone until September. Because let's be real, when the weather warms up, so do our… options. We’re here to dissect the art of the no-strings-attached summer. We're getting into:
🤷♀️ So, what actually qualifies as a "seasonal hoe"? Is it a body count? A state of mind?
😬 How do you navigate the delicate dance of casual without someone (usually you) catching feelings and ruining everything?
😎 Why is embracing your inner warm-weather wanderer actually kind of amazing?
🎒 The contents of our highly essential "hoe go bags."
Think less first-aid kit, more… tools for strategic encounters.
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What is chemistry, and is it overrated? Can love exist without it? Um, spoiler alert, absolutely to all of the above! And it can exist in romantic and platonic relationships. But that doesn't mean it's easy to find. This week, in a solo minisode, Sadaf digs into this and more, including:
🧪 What does chemistry look like?
⏱️ And can it last forever?
👯 Why alignment matters in relationships
❤️ And why you deserve it all
After you listen to EYHO, check out Tracee Ellis Ross's complete episode of IMO here.
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This week, we’re cutting through the BS and breaking down some of the biggest dating myths we’ve all been fed. From the idea that “opposites attract” to the pressure of finding “the one,” we’re taking a hard look at the love advice we grew up with—and why so much of it is straight-up misleading.
We get into:
💘 Should men *always* make the first move?
🤔 Is “if they wanted to, they would” true?
💫 The myth of instant chemistry (and why slow burns deserve more love)
💍 Why “the one” isn’t a guarantee—and how that’s actually a good thing
🛠️ Do you really have to fix yourself before dating?
Plus, we get personal about the myths we’ve fallen for in the past—and the ones we’re still trying to unlearn.
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We all say we want to decentre men—but what about when your friends just won’t? This week, we’re digging into what it actually means to stop making men the main character and why some friendships start feeling different when you do.
We get into:
🚫 What “decentring men” really looks like
😩 The secondhand cringe of watching a friend revolve around a guy
💬 Why romance has been sold to us as the ultimate goal
👯♀️ How to keep friendships solid when your priorities don’t align
🔄 What changes when you stop making men the default
And yeah, unlearning this stuff isn’t instant—so we’re talking about our own messy, imperfect attempts too.
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