Rabbi Bernath’s background growing up and becoming a Rabbi
Meeting the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, that inspires him till today
How he assumed the title “Love Rabbi”
Secrets of Matchmaking
The hardest job in the world — dating
Who am I and what do I bring to the relationship
Practical element of being together and of where you’re headed
Specific is Terrific
Fixed or Flexed - Fixed on and Flexible with
For everything non-negotiable, there must be many negotiable
3 I can live with, 3 things I cannot live without
Cast a specific not, not a wide net
Specific vs narrow-minded
Feeling that something is missing in your life
3 Parts of Matchmaking: Introducing, Coaching, Closing
3 types of people: I people, You people, We people
Importance of a Mashpia (mentor)
Be you and understand you and wherever you are in that moment you will find someone
Gemara about searching for your wife like searching for a lost object: it’s the man’s job to search for the wife
How much work internally and how much externally
The critical person is the mashpia
Hashem will give the right words for the Mashpia to say
Faith and Trust
What to look for in a mashpia (mentor)
Kabbalah and Chassidus meditation class he gives
You can only have one thought at a time