What is it about the loss of control fetish, that gets people so hot and bothered? Submission and power play mainly, but there is so much more, and many Femdom BDSM Fetishes employ the loss of control, or surrender if you will. Listen to this podcast and learn about why loss of control kink is so popular. If you would like to read the blog and subscribe please go to: https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/loss-of-control-kink-and-what-that-means-for-you/

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This is a follow up to my blog post from August titled: Ebony Femdom Transformation Kink: Petrification Shrinking Objectification Fetishes where we talked about transformation fetishes, forniphilia and the petrification fetish. It's an interesting and imaginative sub genre of BDSM and Femdom that I enjoy, and you can have a listen and find out exactly what it is. If you'd like to read the blog please go to: https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/transformation-kink-petrification-shrinking-objectification-fetishes/

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My tone can be cutting, but you'll get over it, or you might enjoy it if you get a tingle from some verbal humiliation.

This episode we're discussing effective communication, meaning what you say and saying what you mean, and my birthday which is June 29th. If you'd like to read the latest blog, go to https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/ebony-femdom-birthdays-and-communicating-effectively/

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This one’s for all the filthy good bois and gurls who love ass. Do you love ass sniffing and ass worship? Have a listen, and read along on my blog by going to:

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How would you like to participate in a Femdom hosted small penis contest? It might be the only time you win at life, lil dick wonder. I did a quick recap of Black History Month, touched on some things pertinent to serving me properly and show your appreciation and devotion. If you would like to read the blog please go to: https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/ebony-femdom-sph-your-little-dick-is-good-for-one-thing

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Happy Valentine's Day. People used to write love letters, sonnets, poems, I've gotten a few. Today we're going to talk about the lost art of love letters, social media and the "we're losing recipes" that this current culture is in the midst of with the ever changing technology. Writing exercises the most important muscle in your body, and you need to start using it. For the blog, I've got two for you.

1. The Lost Art Of Love Letters: https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/the-lost-art-of-love-letters/

2. Pretty Gooners For Ebony Femdom February: https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/pretty-gooners-for-ebony-femdom-february/ New audio in the store.

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Here's a list of reasons why you need chastity and sub training in 2026. Teaching you to be the naughtiest submissive slut and how to properly please the Ebony Femdom. Subscribe to the podcast, and if you'd like to read the blog go to: https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/the-top-ten-reasons-to-be-my-chastity-slut-this-year/ and remember to subscribe to the blog, too.

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Ebony Big Titty Gooning Plapgasm is all about plapping to big ole Ebony titties. But what is plapping? And what does it have to do with gooning and chastity, more importantly - how does one goon while in chastity? All this and more shall be answered on this latest podcast episode. Enjoy the visual stimulation, and if you want to read the latest blog, go to https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/ebony-big-titty-gooning-plapgasm/ and remember to subscribe to the blog and to the podcast.

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What is BNWO? What is Forniphilia? What is a Himbo? And what happens when you take all three of those things and put them together? You get my latest podcast and an invitation to be one of my white boi or femsub trainees... to be human furniture. The short answer is that it's a fantasy fetish, and we're going to get into how I feel about it, and what you can do properly to explore. If you'd like to read the blog please go to https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/ebony-femdom-bnwo-himbo-forniphilia-training/ and remember to subscribe to the blog and to the podcast.

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Carl takes a vacation at a fictional futuristic ocean resort after having nightmares of a sea creature haunt him at home and at work. He discovers there is more to his dreams than he first imagined, and the many secrets the ocean holds. Quick note, this "jet 2 holiday" is purely fictional. I am not affiliated with them in anyway, but this story is part of the 2025 Halloween blog train and is your Monday the 13th station stop. If you would like to read the story go to https://ebonyfemdomphonesex.com/nothing-beats-a-jet-two-holiday-ebony-femdom-shapeshifting-sea-nymph/ and please subscribe to the blog and the podcast if you'd be so kind.

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