CW: In this episode we discuss sexual assault and read an explicit scene of assault and emotional abuse from Eclipse. Still reeling from the Jacob/Bella plot line, Vanessa turns to sex educator and author Emily Nagoski for some help in making sense of Eclipse. They discuss the history of women's sexualization, how Jacob's storyline plays upon real and toxic gender norms, and what to do with Romance novels that uphold the patriarchy. If you haven't already, be sure to check out Emily's amazing books! She's the author <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/come-as-you-are-the-surprising-new-science-that-will-transform-your-sex-life/9781476762098" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/burnout-the-secret-to-unlocking-the-stress-cycle/9781984818324" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle</a>, and two romance novels of her very own: <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/how-not-to-fall/9781496704184" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">How Not to Fall</a> and <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/how-not-to-let-go/9781496704207" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">How Not to Let Go</a>.<hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

CW: In this episode we discuss sexual assault and read an explicit scene of assault and emotional abuse from Eclipse. Still reeling from the Jacob/Bella plot line, Vanessa turns to sex educator and author Emily Nagoski for some help in making sense of Eclipse. They discuss the history of women's sexualization, how Jacob's storyline plays upon real and toxic gender norms, and what to do with Romance novels that uphold the patriarchy. If you haven't already, be sure to check out Emily's amazing books! She's the author Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life, Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, and two romance novels of her very own: How Not to Fall and How Not to Let Go. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

CW: In this episode we discuss sexual assault and read an explicit scene of assault and emotional abuse from Eclipse. Still reeling from the Jacob/Bella plot line, Vanessa turns to sex educator and author Emily Nagoski for some help in making sense of Eclipse. They discuss the history of women's sexualization, how Jacob's storyline plays upon real and toxic gender norms, and what to do with Romance novels that uphold the patriarchy. If you haven't already, be sure to check out Emily's amazing books! She's the author <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/come-as-you-are-the-surprising-new-science-that-will-transform-your-sex-life/9781476762098" rel="noopener noreferrer">Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/burnout-the-secret-to-unlocking-the-stress-cycle/9781984818324" rel="noopener noreferrer">Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle</a>, and two romance novels of her very own: <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/how-not-to-fall/9781496704184" rel="noopener noreferrer">How Not to Fall</a> and <a href="https://bookshop.org/books/how-not-to-let-go/9781496704207" rel="noopener noreferrer">How Not to Let Go</a>. Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

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Hot and Bothered is all about the power of romance culture. We analyze romance novels and movies to better imagine our own happy endings. Episodes release weekly on Tuesdays. CURRENT SEASON: Jane Austen’s Persuasion For Season 6, Hot and Bothered is returning to its roots with a classic romance: Jane Austen's Persuasion. Many readers consider Persuasion Austen's most romantic novel. As a podcast obsessed with romance (and Austen), it was only a matter of time before we answered its siren call. Joining Vanessa Zoltan this season is her longtime mentor, Harvard Divinity School Professor Dr. Stephanie Paulsell. Together, they'll read Persuasion one chapter at a time, asking what Austen's timeless novel can teach us about grief, beauty, aging, and—of course—love. &nbsp;SEASON 5: Hot and Bothered (Movie Edition)For our fifth season of the show, we turned our attention to romantic films. The season began with ten episodes on How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, an iconic film of the early 2000s rom-com oeuvre. Following those episodes, Vanessa was joined by beloved academic and podcaster Hannah McGregor to dig into the canon of romantic films, from Titanic to Twilight to When Harry Met Sally, (just to name a few). We asked every movie “what does this believe about love?” And “do we agree?” SEASON 4: Live from PemberleyIn Live from Pemberley, we continue our deep-dive into the classic texts of romance literature. This season we take a close look at the most famous Romance novel of all time: Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice. Every episode, Vanessa Zoltan and Lauren Sandler read through the book, talk with experts, and ask themselves the question ‘is this still a story for our time?’ SEASON 3: On EyreVanessa Zoltan and journalist Lauren Sandler embark on the English class you always deserved, diving deep into Jane Eyre through the themes of power and desire. Discussions range from ideas of class and colonialism to sex and gender as Lauren and Vanessa explore the roles of oppression and inequality, empowerment and rebellion in the text.&nbsp; SEASON 2: Twilight in QuarantineYou may remember BFFs Vanessa &amp; Julia from their all-star advice giving in Hot and Bothered Season 1. In this COVID-19 quarantine they got on the phone three times a week to read and talk about Twilight. On Twilight in Quarantine, they worked their way through the Twilight saga one chapter at a time, giving brilliant well-informed advice to Stephenie Meyer’s characters along the way. Advice like: “maybe you shouldn’t kidnap people.” SEASON 1: Writing RomanceSeason one of Hot and Bothered followed ten first-time romance writers as they tried to write their own romance novels. Each episode explored a particular romance trope and why we love it so much. Along the way, Julia Quinn, writer of the Bridgerton series, gave weekly assignments so listeners could follow along in the process. Season one was made in collaboration with Spoke Media. Hot &amp; Bothered is produced by Not Sorry Productions, a feminist organization that produces podcasts, educational content, live shows, and immersive experiences with the explicit goal of addressing the spiritual needs of its participants. Through community, rigor, and ritual, we treat traditionally secular things as if they were sacred. To learn more about what we do, visit <a href="https://notsorryworks.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://notsorryworks.com/</a> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

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