In Episode 053 of the Effective Challenge Podcast, discover how our internal scripts, also known as internal dialogue or mind scripts, shape our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. Join us in this enlightening episode as we explore the formation of these mental models, their impact on our lives, and strategies to manage and change them. Learn how to become more aware, challenge limiting beliefs, and embrace personal growth. Let's dive into the fascinating world of our inner voice and unlock our true potential.

Episode Highlights:

Understanding Internal Scripts:

The Power of Scripts:

Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs:

Managing and Changing Scripts

Conclusion

In this episode, we've explored the impact of internal scripts on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. We can unlock personal growth and overcome

Welcome to an impactful episode of the Effective Challenge Podcast, where we delve into a subject that profoundly influences each and every one of us: habits. Join us as we explore the art of effectively managing our existing habits and crafting new ones that align with our goals and aspirations.

The podcast looks at a practical and grounded approach Stanford Professor BJ Fogg developed to unearthing and decoding our habits or using the same method to create new ones.

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In this week's episode of the Effective Challenge podcast, we delve into a crucial topic: understanding and optimising our energy levels to achieve the greatest impact in our lives.

Join us as we explore practical strategies for assessing our energy peaks and troughs, aligning tasks with available energy through prioritization, setting boundaries to avoid burnout, and adapting to the evolving demands we encounter.

Topics Covered:

1. Assessing Energy Peaks and Troughs: Learn how to comprehensively assess your energy levels, recognising the times when you feel most energised and the moments of fatigue. Discovering these patterns can help you plan and allocate your energy more effectively and work better with others.

2. Aligning Tasks with Available Energy: Explore techniques for better alignment between the tasks you need to accomplish and the energy you have available. Discover the power of prioritisation and how it can optimise your productivity by focusing on tasks that match your energy levels.

3. Setting Appropriate Boundaries: Understand the importance of establishing boundaries to safeguard your energy reserves. Learn effective strategies for preventing exhaustion and burnout, ensuring you maintain a healthy balance between work and personal life.

4. Adapting to Changing Demands: Discover adaptive approaches to cope with the ever-changing demands we face. Gain insights into how to adjust your energy management strategies and stay resilient in the face of new challenges.

To conclude the podcast, we invite you to participate in an energy audit exercise. This exercise will help you better understand the factors that energise and deplete you. By identifying these influencers, you can make informed decisions about how to optimise your energy and achieve maximum impact in your personal and professional endeavours.

Join us on the Effective Challenge podcast as we equip you with actionable insights and strategies to optimize your energy levels and unlock your full potential.

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Welcome back to another episode of the Effective Challenge Podcast.

In this week's episode, we're shifting gears and focusing on the management of our healthy minds. If you are concerned about your mental health, seeking support from medical professionals or mental health charities such as Mind is important. They are there to help.

The topic we'll be exploring is something that frequently arises in coaching conversations and even in my own head when dealing with various situations. Despite the recent attention it has garnered in the last few years, it's not a new concept. In fact, one of the Stoics, Seneca, was discussing this very issue

Have you ever been caught up in worry and fear about events that haven't even happened or might never happen? If so, you're not alone. Our minds have an incredible ability to create vivid scenarios, often fixating on the worst possible outcomes. For some, this imaginative process can become a mental

It's important to note that some level of scenario planning is healthy and beneficial. It allows us to prepare and plan for various situations. However,

Interestingly, when we reflect on our experiences, we often realise that they aren't as terrible as we imagined. Our minds tend to exaggerate the negatives and

We must acknowledge that we can't control our thoughts entirely to manage them better. However, with practice and the right tools, we can improve our

An approach I use for myself and others is the Intensive Care Unit for our minds—a personal ICU. It consists of three key elements: interrupt, challenge, and

In the episode, we’ll unpack each element and see how they can serve you and your situations.

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In this episode of the Effective Challenge podcast, I reflect on a year of navigating the challenges of long covid and some of the surprises along the way.

Based on a conversation with someone else, I also discuss some of the better things that many people found themselves doing due to the original lockdown, which they benefited from. Unfortunately, many of those positive habits and activities have fallen by the wayside as the pace of modern life has picked up. I invite listeners to reflect if there is anything they may have been doing that they could reintroduce.

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Join me in this week's episode of the Effective Challenge podcast as we delve into the subject of unseen efforts and their profound impact on our ability to achieve success.

In this episode, we explore the far-reaching implications of unseen efforts and uncover strategies to position ourselves for success. We delve into the crucial aspects of mental health, acknowledging its significance in our journey. Moreover, we shed light on the importance of recognising and celebrating the milestones along the path to our ultimate aspirations.

Tune in to gain valuable insights, practical tips, and a fresh perspective on harnessing the power of unseen efforts to unlock your full potential.

In this shorter episode, I look at the overuse of the word busy as a descriptor for how we are doing.

The podcast provides two approaches to consider.

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This week's episode explores redefining "more is more." While we're familiar with the concept of "less is more," achieving more by doing less, it's important to identify higher-value activities and prioritize them. However, The allure of "more" is where we often find ourselves, influenced by cultural and psychological factors such as the busy trap, blurred work boundaries, and the impact of consumerism and social media. Surprisingly, having too many options can lead to decision fatigue, dissatisfaction, and anxiety, as we constantly wonder if there's a better choice. It can be similar when working longer hours to ‘keep up’ leading

One contributing factor to pursuing "more" is the quest for fulfilment, rooted in our primal needs for safety, food, and shelter. Our bodies produce chemicals like dopamine that drive this pursuit, but in modern times we can find that we are pursuing material possessions and external achievements which unmanaged can become addictive and overshadow our true fulfilment. To shift the balance of "more," we encourage listeners to consider a more balanced approach by considering their physical and mental well-being, investing in activities aligned with their values, and nurturing meaningful relationships. And not forgetting that gratitude for what we already have is key to finding joy and fulfilment. While there are times when going the extra mile is necessary, it's crucial to be aware of how our default behaviours can hinder our actual desired outcomes. Redefining success will likely result in achieving most of what we want while experiencing more happiness along the way, recognizing that the things we don't achieve are unlikely to outweigh the cost of happiness.

Welcome to the latest episode of the Effective Challenge podcast. In today's discussion, we delve into a valuable approach designed to assess our readiness for change. This approach, developed by renowned psychiatrist Dr. Steve Peters, whom many of our listeners may recognise from his book, "The Chimp Paradox," is known as the Triangle of Change.

The Triangle of Change encompasses three essential elements: Suffering & Reward, Psychologically Mindedness, and Commitment. We gain practical insights into assessing our preparedness for personal change by exploring these aspects.

If you find yourself seeking personal growth and are eager to evaluate your readiness for change, this podcast episode is tailored precisely for you. Join me as we navigate the Triangle of Change, offering you a practical framework to gauge your current position and pave the way for a successful journey of self-improvement.

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Welcome to the podcast, where I take inspiration from the Giro D’Italia, the first cycling grand tour of the year that tests physical and mental endurance. In this episode, I talk about how the Giro is more than just a race, it offers us a powerful metaphor for life itself. Each stage presents its own unique challenges, from unexpected obstacles and disruptions to moments of triumph and defeat. And in these challenges, we can find valuable lessons that apply to our own lives.

For instance, Stage 6 felt like an example of the great being the enemy of the good. Two riders having been away in a break for over 70KM sacrificed coming either first or second by not working together in the final few 100 meters and ended up coming 88th and 89th as a result. That phrase got me thinking, are there occasions when it’s more like the great being the enemy of the great? In this episode, I explore how the pursuit of greatness can sometimes be counterproductive and even harmful.

I’ll discuss how perfectionism can lead to non-action, and how our idealized version of great can be demotivating. I’ll also talk about how the pursuit of greatness can lead to overwork and burnout, neglecting our health, relationships, and other important areas of our lives.

To avoid falling into the greatness trap, I’ll suggest setting better goals, the importance of self-compassion and learning from setbacks. I’ll share ways to prioritize self-care, such as setting boundaries, getting enough sleep, eating and drinking well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation.

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