Effort and Vibes

The crew practices social distancing and decided to pod via Skype, to share their experiences during the quarantine.  Tune in to hear how the crew is adjusting and how they find time to themselves when everyone is home! 

The pod was recorded on March 21st, at which the CDC reported 24,583 cases of Covid-19 in the United States. It has not even been two weeks and the number of reported cases is over 140,000. The team at Effort and Vibes wants to stress the importance of social distancing and how it will help to stop the spread. We want to thank all of the medical staff on the frontlines of this epidemic and to all of the essential employees who are still working to provide some sort of normalcy during this time. We hope that this pod will relate to you and your family and to let you know that we're all in this together.

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What has shaped you in becoming the person you are today?  This week, Effort and Vibes explores gender roles and where they come from. The crew breakdown why you should avoid threesomes during the coronavirus outbreak and share how they always seem to get naked in Maine. Tati and Zay share their love for Boston’s first city dispensary: Pure Oasis. The crew share their grown comfort with both their femininity and masculinity. Tati and Tae bless us with another Effort and Vaginas segment in honor of International Women’s Day. They share their frustration of being consistently associated with their emotions and the women in their life who continue to break through glass ceilings. Join us this week to find out why no matter what gender, you should always add a pedicure to your routine.

Time is money! Or is it? This week, Effort and Vibes talk about timeliness, when to leave the function and how long may be too long when holding a grudge. Viruses: if you’re under 30, you’ve been faced with every scary illness and the media hysteria that comes with it. The crew share their thoughts on some of the misinformation around the Coronavirus. Can you rework a broken friendship? They share some tips on which ones may be worth the effort. Are you getting over it or suppressing it? The E&V guys share times as men where they didn’t know how to share their feelings with others. Do y’all know the "partner show" rules? Effort and Vibes break down the relationship rules when it comes down watching a tv series together. What do you imagine the future will look like? The crew brainstorm what future generations will think about the 2000s and what tech will take over.

This week, Effort and Vibes talk Black History Month and their experiences being Black year round. The crew recap their Valentine’s Day festivities and Tati and Zay share how they know no one is smoking outside in Chicago right now. They discuss The Photograph starring Issa Rae and LaKeith Stanfield and the importance of black love on screen to assist in the break down of generational trauma. Have you ever talked to your family about your family story? The crew share some of their family history, lineage, and the importance of asking questions when you can. When is the first time you can recall an instance of Black Girl Magic? The crew share their favorite encounters of Black Women and why they always deserve more praise than we can give them. We break down why Black Boy Joy isn’t just for kids and whether or not to use the N word in mixed company.  The crew shout out some badass Black people they have the privilege of knowing. Remember; show your Black friends love all year, not just in February!

This week we're elevating the vibes and talking about love and all things Valentine's Day!

The crew talks "Afrochella" and retracing their African heritage. Have you heard of "wrist-bending?" Zay explains your new favorite slang. The E&V crew make it law, that if no one swag surfs when "Swag Surfin" drops, your party is whack...straight up *Travis Scott Voice*! Tae explains why we won't stop talking about slavery and we're not gonna stop swag surfin' in the club. Tune in to hear all about the return of everyone's childhood snack!

We take it back to the Valentine's Day treats and who got what Valentine. We talk love letters and lyrics that got all the ladies in middle school. The guys talk vulnerability and the opportunity Valentine's Day gives them to open up. Do you love publicly receiving Valentine's gifts or find it awkward? Javon shares a time that Tae went all out with gifts and his clunky trip home on the bus. Don't know where to go for dinner? Tati and Zay share a creative game they came up with that could be of assistance this Valentine's Day if you have a picky partner! The crew share their past and present Valentine's Day stories and you don't want to miss it!

The ladies of E&V are excited to launch a new segment...Effort and Vaginas! Where the women of E&V drive the topic and conversation, while the men take a back seat! For this segment, they explain how they prepare for Valentine's Day, the struggle of lingerie, and how their expectations have changed throughout the years. (Timestamp 50:21 min)

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Effort and Vibes dedicate this week's episode to Kobe Bryant and his influence on our adolescence. The crew share the affect of Kobe's passing and the process of grief, while exploring how to navigate those feelings for someone you didn't know personally. They share their favorite Kobe moments, reflect on those lunchroom and school bus debates and share what Kobe facts they used as their go to pickup lines. How do we celebrate Kobe's legacy, while holding him accountable for past transgressions? The crew hold space for the various perspectives that surround the infamous Colorado case that shaped Kobe early in his career. We recognize the different parts of Kobe outside of basketball and his favorite role that has been hash tagged across the web as #girldad.

We send our love and condolences to the fans, friends and family of Kobe and Gianna Bryant, John, Keri and Alyssa Antobelli, Christina Mauser, Sarah and Payton Chester, and Ara Zobayan.

This week, the crew share their experiences in support of Advesa (tune in to learn more about Advesa!) and attending town hall meetings. Tati suggests that smaller cars be invented in 2021 to help with traffic. Find out what a "doula" is and if it's covered by your health insurance. Tae shares a scary story and why it's important to always wash your hands after you finish working out! 

The crew shares why you shouldn't completely judge someone off a first impression and how it's all about the energy they give! This episode is all about personalities and how ours have (or have not) changed throughout the years!

We are BACK from the hiatus! The crew share all the things between our bonus episode and bring you our very anticipated season two. Have some 2020 resolutions on your list? Tune in to hear how we reset throughout January, while keeping ourselves accountable and goals attainable. Find out which of our hosts have been working on their own goals of entering the cannabis industry, where they want to set up shop and their feelings on entering an industry in which individuals are still incarcerated for. As we leave the decade of sidekicks and side pieces, the crew reflect on how technology has amplified voices around the world and the real life consequences of the internet. Have you ever thought of being an IG model after a successful selfie? We talk why we’re all influencers on the internet and how to best utilize it. Tune in for a very special announcement on the moves Effort and Vibes is making in 2020 to live in more places than just our podcast.

Did you miss us?! The crew come back together in between seasons to provide a special bonus episode! We break down our Friendsgiving festivities and a special E&V trip to see Sir’s show in the city. Tae talks concert etiquette and why you shouldn’t be in the front row if you don't know the lyrics. Planning a vacay during the holiday break? Zay shares some hacks on how to get the best perks for your next cruise. Tati shares the importance of taking a break from hosting and why you'll never catch her ice skating. Is an ice luge at an office party weird? We break down some do’s and don'ts when trying to vibe with your co workers. Find out which Podder has two work husbands and what Effort and Vibes foresees for 2020!

Tis the holiDAYZ! We break down how to prep for your next Friendsgiving, while providing some tips on how to keep your cool during those infamous moments around the dinner table. Are Ritz crackers a cop out at the potluck? The crew try to determine the algorithm for what food to avoid and what to add to your to go plate. We share what to do when your parents use you to flex on your family and the transition to sitting at the grown folks table. 

The team reflect on our First Season and how comfy we've gotten after moving to Studio 33. We share reminders of being comfortable with your pace of growth and not being afraid to build your platform and your voice. 

We thought our parents would be our only weekly listeners, so thank you! Drop some comments on Apple Podcast on what you would like to hear more of in Season Two. Keep up with us on IG for some extra vibey content while we're away, Here's to Season Two!