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Back-to-school worry is normal—but what happens when the stomachaches, tears, or "I don't want to go!" keep coming? Licensed counselor Kaitlyn Torres joins me to talk about what's normal, when anxiety may need more support, and practical ways to help kids move through it without trying to make it disappear.

• Don't make anxiety the enemy. Our job isn't to eliminate every uncomfortable feeling—it's to help our kids learn they can handle discomfort.
• Practice the hard thing. Role-play drop-off, visit the school, switch roles, and make it silly. Practice helps the scary thing feel a little less BIG.
• Turn the volume down—not off. Small supports, predictability, play, and a regulated parent can help anxiety move from a 10 to an 8. That counts.

"I know you really don't want to go to school today. I get it. Let's go pick out your snack."

Empathy + forward movement. No 7:12 a.m. therapy session required.

Your child comes home from school and suddenly melts down over the color of a cup. Sound familiar? In this episode, we're talking about why after-school meltdowns are so common, what your child's brain and body actually need after a long day, and a simple After School Land Before you Launch Fridge Cheat Sheet that can help your afternoons feel calmer and more connected.

• After-school meltdowns aren't proof your child had a bad day—they're often a sign their nervous system has reached its limit.
• Before jumping into homework or questions, try a simple reset: water, a real snack, movement or play, quiet downtime, and connection.
• Instead of reacting to the behavior you can see, pause and DIG for the root. Behavior is information, not the whole story.

"I'm glad you're home. Let's get your body some water and a snack, and then we'll figure out the rest of the afternoon."

What happens when you've tried all the books, counseling, and parenting strategies... and you're still overwhelmed? In this episode, Parent Lab mom Kyra shares how learning to pause, stay regulated, and parent with intention helped change the atmosphere in her home—and why she wishes every mom had a safe place to grow. Grab your spot in Parent Lab Here!

• Small moments matter. One deep breath and one regulated response can completely change the direction of a hard parenting moment.
• You don't have to parent alone. Sometimes the greatest gift is sitting in a room full of moms who simply nod and say, "Me too."
• Intentional parenting starts with slowing down. When you have space to think instead of react, you begin creating new patterns for your family.

"I'm going to take one deep breath before I respond."

Ready for practical tools and a community of moms cheering you on? Book a discovery call and grab my free Emotional Tools 101 video series through the links in the show notes.

Why do family vacations seem to bring out the worst in everyone? In this episode, Jami shares why the biggest meltdowns usually have nothing to do with Disney- and everything to do with unmet expectations, overloaded nervous systems, and what's happening beneath the surface. You'll leave with one simple mindset shift to help your family enjoy the next big adventure a little more.

3 Key Takeaways:

• 🍎 Use the DIG Framework: Detect the fruit, Inspect the roots, Grow one root.
• 🎢 Trade expectations for preparation—real families will have hard moments, even on great vacations.
• 💛 Practice an If...Then... Plan so you can rehearse your response instead of trying to control everyone else's behavior.

Simple Script Parents Can Say: "My child's behavior is the fruit. Before I react, I'm going to DIG for the root."

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Intro: What happens when you stop trying to do parenting alone? In this episode, I sit down with Gretchen, a mom from our last Parent Lab cohort, who shares how she went from barely treading water to finding confidence, community, and practical tools that changed the way she parents. Her favorite win? Cleaning the entire house with her kids—and staying regulated through the whole thing.

3 Key Takeaways:

• You're not the only parent who feels overwhelmed—and asking for support is a strength, not a weakness.
• Community changes everything. Sometimes the most powerful parenting tool is hearing another mom say, "Me too."
• Small mindset shifts can lead to big changes in your home, from staying regulated to building more respectful relationships with your kids.

Simple Script Parents Can Say: "I'm not ignoring you. I'm choosing to wait until we can both talk respectfully."

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What if the parenting advice you needed most came from a mom who's a few steps ahead? In this first Mentor Mom episode, I'm joined by my dear friend Jacki Dublin as we talk about marriage, asking for help, staying calm, screen time, and the simple habits that helped her raise kind, confident kids.

3 Key Takeaways:

• Give yourself grace. There isn't one "right" way to parent, and your kids don't need a perfect mom—they need a growing one.
• Protect what matters most: your marriage, your family's rhythms, and your kids' hearts (especially when it comes to screens).
• Listen to your body. The best parenting decisions often happen after you've paused, breathed, and regulated yourself first.

Simple Script Parents Can Say: "Not every meal can be your favorite meal."

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Resources: Hedges: Loving Your Marriage Enough to Protect It

Shepherding a Child's Heart

The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

The Opt-Out Family: How to Give Your Kids what Technology Can't

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What if your child's behavior isn't the problem—it's the clue? In this episode of the Summer Sanity Series, Jami shares the simple DIG framework to help you stop chasing behaviors and start growing healthier roots in your family.

3 Key Takeaways:

• 🍎 Detect the fruit: Behavior is data, not a definition of your child.
• 🌱 Inspect the roots: Get curious about the six roots—Balance, Brain, Body, Boundaries, Beliefs, and Belonging.
• 🌳 Grow one root: Don't try to fix everything. One small, consistent change can make a big difference.

Simple Script Parents Can Say: "I'm going to pause before I react. What root might need attention right now?"

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Feeling more impatient by the end of the day? You're not alone. In this episode, Jami shares why summer can leave moms running on empty and how tending your own roots can help you respond with more patience, clarity, and connection.

Key Takeaways:

• Reactivity is often a sign of depleted roots, not personal failure.
• Check in with your six roots: Balance, Boundaries, Body, Brain, Beliefs, and Belonging.
• Small moments of tending your own roots can change how you show up for your family.

Simple Script Parents Can Say: "I'm feeling overwhelmed right now, so I'm going to take one deep breath before I answer."

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Intro: Does your child completely lose it when it's time to turn off the TV, tablet, or video games? In this episode, Jami shares why screen time battles are rarely just about the screen and how understanding the root beneath the behavior can help you respond with more confidence and less chaos.

Key Takeaways:

• Screen time battles often point to deeper roots like boundaries, brain regulation, or balance
• Consistent boundaries help kids feel safe, even when they push back.
• The timer is your BFF with screen time boundaries

Simple Script Parents Can Say: "You can choose 15 more minutes of video games or one more TV show. Then screens are done for today. Which do you choose?"

Still hearing "MOM!" every five minutes this summer? This is Part 2 of the Sibling Fight series — and this week we get practical. Now that you know why to stop refereeing, here's exactly how to coach your kids through conflict when they have no idea what to do next.

Key Takeaways:

• Conflict is data — watch for who shuts down, who escalates, and who's actually listening vs. building their case

• "Use your words" only works if kids actually have the words — your job is to give them the script and let them practice it

• Every fight leaves a little rip in the relationship — repair is a skill you teach and model yourself

Script to try today: "Did you like it? No? Okay — say: I don't like it when you ___. Please ___."

And when repair is needed: "What would a healthy repair look like?"

Ready to stop winging it and get a game plan built around your specific kids? Book a free discovery call — link below — and grab the free Emotional Tools 101 guide while you're there.

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