Starting university can feel like stepping into a whirlwind — new people, new responsibilities, and a lot of pressure to figure it all out. In this solo episode, I’m opening up about everything I wish someone had told me before I started...
What We Talk About in This Episode:
💬 1. Not Everyone Will Like You — and That’s Not the Goal
→ School was cliquey, and I wanted to be liked by everyone. I’d organise calls, brunches, and burn myself out trying to keep up.
→ The truth? You don’t need to be for everyone. Stay open to connection, but don’t take it personally.
💬 2. Make Time for Your Health
→ That uni joke about choosing only two: sleep, social life, or good grades? Let’s stop glorifying burnout.
→ You need fuel, rest, and boundaries. Plan ahead. It’s okay to say no.
💬 3. Ask for Help – You’re Not Supposed to Know Everything
→ Uni is independent and often unclear. Use your resources: book office hours, email your lecturers, ask questions. Support is there for a reason.
💬 4. Prioritise Smarter, Not Harder
→ Ditch the never-ending to-do list. Try the avalanche method to focus your energy on what matters most.
💬 5. FOMO is Inevitable – But Burnout Isn’t Worth It
→ You will always be missing something. Let yourself rest. Quiet time isn’t a waste — it’s how you stay grounded.
💬 6. You Don’t Need to Get It Right Instantly
→ New environment. New responsibilities. It’s okay to mess up. You can’t be clean without getting a little messy. Just learn and keep going.
💬 7. You’re Going to Change — Let Yourself Evolve
→ Changing interests, friendships, even values? That’s normal. You’re growing. You’re allowed to evolve.
💬 8. Try New Things
→ This is your chance to explore. New people, societies, hobbies — take the leap. You might just surprise yourself.
💬 9. Feeling Lost is Completely Normal
→ Everyone’s pretending to have it together — trust me. Use the resources around you. You deserve support. Embrace the uncertainty — clarity will come.
💬 10. Don’t Compare Yourself to Others
→ Everyone’s life branches off differently at this stage. Run your race. Stay in your lane. Your journey is valid.
💡 Whether you’re starting uni, deep in the journey, or reflecting back — this episode is your permission slip to be gentle with yourself.
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