We begin with a discussion about the various types of vaginoplasty being peddled to women as elective surgeries (as if pussy suddenly became unattractive or something), then move into ways a 25 year old newlywed can battle her loss of focus during sex. No, it isn't an urban legend that some women thing about doing the laundry during sex. Yes, there are things that can be done about it, and most of them are a lot of fun.

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We talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup.

Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-ass tickler Shara picked to be spanked with (well played, slave ;0)

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We review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt.

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Topics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing what an orgasm feels like for her, and we'd like to ask all the ladies in the audience to help out as well by doing their best to describe the physical sensations that make up an orgasm for you.

This episode marks the second anniversary of Ending The Sexual Dark Age, and we're thrilled to be starting a fresh year for the show. Sexualdarkage.com is now being updated daily with funny sex pics, sex and sexual health news, Shara's choice of daily hottie pics, at least one guy and one girl per day, and other fun stuff to help us put at least one smile a day on your face.

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Shara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to improve dating success.

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Listener questions about working in the adult industry, how to deal when one half of your favorite couple to swing with turns out to be a cheater, what to do about a painful boner and how to become a phone sex operator.

In an effort to cut down on production time, we're releasing a virtually un-edited episode this time. Let us know what you think :)

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Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies.

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Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn't done anything wrong.

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We talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research. Show Links: After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered Clitoris Education Project Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com All images re-posted with permission from After Dinner Party. For the original post plus lots of educational material on the clitoris, you can go straight to the Clitoris page, but I recommend starting with the Intro.              

As we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission.

We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows, J.V.'s band from back in the day.

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Feminist Sex Submissive? How I Reconcile My Politics With My Sex Life

Tree of Shadows online

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