1. Properly Defined 2. Its Deepest Motive 3. Its Ultimate Purpose This sermon explores the theological significance of Proverbs 27:5-6, arguing that true friendship is marked not by constant approval but by faithful rebuke that exposes sin for the sake of spiritual well-being. The preacher contrasts the 'kisses of an enemy,' which offer deceptive comfort, with the 'wounds of a friend,' which act as a surgical tool to remove spiritual corruption. Drawing on biblical examples such as Rehoboam, Ahab, and the prodigal son, the message warns against surrounding oneself with those who only affirm one's desires, urging instead a reliance on God's Word and the counsel of the church. The tone is convicting yet pastoral, emphasizing that biblical love prioritizes a person's relationship with God over immediate personal happiness. Ultimately, the sermon points to Christ as the ultimate friend who wounds with truth to heal, restore, and reconcile believers to God.