You've Got a Type

Enneagram Types 1 and 3 in a Relationship Explained


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Here's a glimpse into what a relationship looks like between a Type 1 Reformer and a Type 3 Achiever.We'll talk about what these types have in common, what specifically attracts each type to each other, what conflict looks like between them, and then conclude with some *potentially* helpful advice based on the enneagram theories discussed throughout the episode. DISCLAIMER: This is a general overview that cannot cover the complexity of each subtype & variation (e.g. a self-pres 1w9 with a social 3w2 could be very different than some of these general descriptions), nor can I cover how the varying degrees of each specific couple's mental/emotional health would impact so many of these patterns. So with that disclaimer out of the way, please feel free to share how these patterns do or don't play out in your personal life, all while keeping any combative disagreements to a minimum :) Thank you, and enjoy!0:00 Shared Traits2:43 One's Attraction to Three5:30 Three's Attraction to One8:36 Conflict12:07 Advice15:52 RatingšŸ‘Øā€šŸ”§ Type One Complete Guideā–¶ https://youtu.be/PNTi3KfNZUE🩵 Type One Relationships Overviewā–¶ https://youtu.be/0Y--NHilq-M+šŸ„‡ Type Three Complete Guideā–¶ https://youtu.be/IwAHPR6wcmošŸ’› Type Three Relationships Overviewā–¶ https://youtu.be/r2AVB5-PsM8āš ļø Triadic Patternsā–¶ https://youtu.be/XOG46yF-4jM?si=7t3J_RHT1r8kcTXoBecome a YGAT Channel Member to get access to exclusive perks and watch new videos weeks before anyone else šŸŽ‰ā–¶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13ZwjIfPn8tvD7S7yyolRA/joinFind Your Enneagram Type: Book a Typing Session ā˜Žļøā–ŗ https://www.youvegotatype.com/contact#enneagram #relationships #enneagram3 #enneagram1 #selfawareness #relationshipadvice #selfhelp #spiritualgrowth #personalitytypes #personality #enneagramtypes #love #dating #marriage #relationshipgoals #relationshipsuccess #enneagram3w2 #enneagram1w2 #enneagram1w9 #enneagram3w4 #individualist #helper #vulnerability #emotions #intensity #achiever #boss #leadership #empathy #relationships #love #intimacy #marriage #boundaries -Written by Colton Simmons, but with all due credit to the Don Riso & Russ Hudson of the Enneagram Institute for their many books that informed the majority of the content contained in this video, as well as Richard Rohr, Helen Palmer, Claudio Naranjo, Oscar Ichazo, and the many major enneagram pioneers!

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