You've Got a Type

Enneagram Types 3 and 4 in a Relationship Explained


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Here's a glimpse into what a relationship looks like between a Type 3 Achiever and a Type 4 Individualist.We'll talk about what these types have in common, what specifically attracts each type to each other, what conflict looks like between them, and then conclude with some *potentially* helpful advice based on the enneagram theories discussed throughout the episode. DISCLAIMER: This is a general overview that cannot cover the complexity of each subtype & variation (e.g. a self-pres 3w4 with a social 4w3 could be very different than some of these general descriptions), nor can I cover how the varying degrees of each specific couple's mental/emotional health would impact so many of these patterns. So with that disclaimer out of the way, please feel free to share how these patterns do or don't play out in your personal life, all while keeping any combative disagreements to a minimum :) Thank you, and enjoy!0:00 Shared Traits3:15 Three’s Attraction to Four5:47 Four’s Attraction to Three8:38 Conflict11:51 Advice15:26 Rating🥇 Type Three Complete Guide▶ https://youtu.be/IwAHPR6wcmo💛 Type Three Relationships Overview▶ https://youtu.be/r2AVB5-PsM8🧑‍🎨 Type Four Complete Guide▶ https://youtu.be/V8H22OLdWwQ💜 Type Four Relationships Overview▶ https://youtu.be/xH95KVQHMig⚠️ Triadic Patterns▶ https://youtu.be/XOG46yF-4jM?si=7t3J_RHT1r8kcTXoBecome a YGAT Channel Member to get access to exclusive perks and watch new videos weeks before anyone else 🎉▶ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13ZwjIfPn8tvD7S7yyolRA/joinFind Your Enneagram Type: Book a Typing Session ☎️► https://www.youvegotatype.com/contact#enneagram #relationships #enneagram4 #enneagram3 #selfawareness #relationshipadvice #selfhelp #spiritualgrowth #personalitytypes #personality #enneagramtypes #love #dating #marriage #relationshipgoals #relationshipsuccess #enneagram3w4 #enneagram3w2 #enneagram4w3 #enneagram4w5 #individualist #achiever #vulnerability #emotions #intensity #artist #creatives #relationships #love #intimacy #marriage #boundaries-Written by Colton Simmons, but with all due credit to the Don Riso & Russ Hudson of the Enneagram Institute for their many books that informed the majority of the content contained in this video, as well as Richard Rohr, Helen Palmer, Claudio Naranjo, Oscar Ichazo, and the many major enneagram pioneers!

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