This week I am honoured to be bringing you a world class conversation with Dr. Gary Chapman author of The 5 Love Languages a book which has sold almost 14 million copies, translated into 50 languages and been on the New York Times best seller list since 2007!

Dr. Chapman is a well know marriage counsellor and has a passion for people and helping them form lasting relationships. He has written many books including The 5 Love Languages for children, men, couples, singles, the military and teens.

To discover your love language, head to https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

In this episode you will hear:

03:45 the origins of The 5 Love Languages - what makes one person feel loved doesn’t make the another person feel loved

06:35 14 million copies and translated into 50 languages around the world

07:05 our deep human need for love

09:20 the greatest show of love is to do what is most uncomfortable

11:35 imagine a world where we can lead from love and not for love

14:20 become an agent of love

14:45 if you are not a loving person you will not be a servant leader

16:55 three questions that changed everything in his marriage

17:45 love has to have an attitude of service

18:35 leaders can help people go home better for those who need them

20:05 MBA - motivation by appreciation

22:50 it’s going to seem strange leading with love to begin with

24:05 practical ways to lead with love and appreciation while working remotely

26:05 leading the unlovely

29:00 when fear is the primary motivator of a manager the workplace becomes toxic

32:00 when people feel safe, they will share their ideas

34:50 the FIRST thing you should do to create a culture of love in the workplace

38:00 life’s greatest meaning is found in helping others

We hope this has inspired you in your heart, your mind, your relationships and your leadership.

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Always love

Ryan Hartley

Connect with Dr. Gary Chapman

Website: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/

Find out your love language: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

Instagram: @5lovelanguages

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drgarychapman

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/5lovelanguages/

Podcast: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/podcasts/

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