💞 Shana Rishona Challenge Day 5: The Male Mind & You

I feel like I could talk for a year about the male mind and not lose interest. If I could go back and talk to MYSELF as a newlywed, this is what I'd share with her first:

Listen to what he's saying.

I don't mean listen to what he seems to be saying. Or listen to what he's implying. Or listen to what he means.

I mean the actual words.

Men are refreshingly, amazingly, brilliantly direct.

I can't tell you how many times a woman I was coaching was telling me about the disapproval/frustration/judgment she was getting from her husband. When I asked her for the actual WORDS he said, she paused.

And thought.

And asked, "wait... do you think he really meant... what he was saying?"

He did.

Phew. 😅

💬 Your challenge today: Listen to the actual words. If you think he means more than he's saying, just ask. He'll tell you.

It's such a treat to be married to a man!

➡ Class 4 is a deep dive into what makes your brains tick differently--PLUS an entire Communication Masterclass--waiting for you inside (along with a chance to say goodbye to misunderstandings, unnecessarily hurt feelings, and missed opportunities). Have you joined us? kaylalevin.com/newlywed

Resources:

• Want to be part of the WhatsApp challenge? Join us at ⁠bit.ly/4shalom

• Episode 179 Purim Your Brain
• Episode 143 Purim Thoughts
• Episode 65 Purim - He's not a reflection of you