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Shana Rishona Challenge Day 7: Communication Upgrade
It wasn't easy for me to pick which communication hack to use, but yesterday someone told me that after DECADES of marriage, this tool gave her a new insight into her husband. That's enough HP for me.
Here's the idea: women talk back-and-forth. We interrupt to show we get it. We finish each other's sentences.
Men don't. Men talk until the idea is finished. If they see they won't get to finish the idea, they might not bother to start it.
It's tricky, because when he IS talking, we might feel disengaged--after all, we're not used to being so passive. On the other hand, we might not know he even HAS much to say, because he's never really had the chance.
So here's your challenge today: at some point today, listen to your husband AD HA SOF. Until he's done. No interruptions, agreements, disagreements, sentence-finishers, "here's what you're probably trying to say"s.
Enjoy the gift of seeing more and more of him.
The full Communication Masterclass (basically a course in and of itself) is inside the First Year Married program. Check it out at kaylalevin.com/newlywed
Looking for more support? Book a call to learn more about private coaching availability.
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Shana Rishona Challenge Day 7: Communication Upgrade
It wasn't easy for me to pick which communication hack to use, but yesterday someone told me that after DECADES of marriage, this tool gave her a new insight into her husband. That's enough HP for me.
Here's the idea: women talk back-and-forth. We interrupt to show we get it. We finish each other's sentences.
Men don't. Men talk until the idea is finished. If they see they won't get to finish the idea, they might not bother to start it.
It's tricky, because when he IS talking, we might feel disengaged--after all, we're not used to being so passive. On the other hand, we might not know he even HAS much to say, because he's never really had the chance.
So here's your challenge today: at some point today, listen to your husband AD HA SOF. Until he's done. No interruptions, agreements, disagreements, sentence-finishers, "here's what you're probably trying to say"s.
Enjoy the gift of seeing more and more of him.
The full Communication Masterclass (basically a course in and of itself) is inside the First Year Married program. Check it out at kaylalevin.com/newlywed
Looking for more support? Book a call to learn more about private coaching availability.
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