The desire to be liked is natural—but left unchecked, it can quietly shape your daughter's identity in unhealthy, even addictive ways. From the playground to the group chat, the pressure to earn approval can steal her joy, distort her view of self, and distance her from the truth of who she is in Christ.

In this must-listen episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive deep into the social and spiritual undercurrents of girls' need for affirmation. Together, they unpack how a girl's early development can fuel her craving for praise—and how loving, intentional parenting can redirect that desire toward the One whose love never wavers.

You'll hear candid personal stories from both hosts, powerful Scriptural truths, and timely insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in the Raising Godly Girls Minute. You'll also learn how to reframe your daughter's attention-seeking behavior, not as manipulation, but as a longing to be seen, known, and loved. This episode doesn't just name the problem—it offers the Christ-centered path out.

In this episode, you'll explore:

• How girls' early need for affirmation can spiral into an identity crisis if left unaddressed

• The "Hawthorne Effect" and what it reveals about your daughter's desire to be seen

• The difference between "fitting in" and standing out for Christ (Philippians 2:15, Romans 8:5)

• How to help your girl root her confidence in Colossians 3:2 living—setting her mind on things above

• Practical steps to break the approval addiction and reestablish her identity in Christ

Scriptures Referenced:

• Philippians 2:15 — "...shine like stars in the sky."

• Romans 8:5 — "Those who live according to the flesh..."

• Colossians 3:2 — "Set your minds on things above..."

• John 15:5 — "Abide in me and I in you..."

This episode reminds you that your daughter's desire to be liked isn't the problem—it's where she looks for that affirmation that matters most. Help her turn from the fleeting approval of the world to the everlasting love of her Heavenly Father. And as a mom, be encouraged: your voice, your presence, and your daily words of truth are shaping the next generation of confident, Christlike women.

Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.

To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.