Is widowhood pushing you to challenge the status quo of what a widow is supposed to be and what a widow is supposed to do?  I believe that the death so close to us is the most magnificent catalyst for personal growth.  “if you live each day as if it were your last, someday you will most certainly be right.”  Steve Jobs said every day of his adult life, he looked in the mirror every morning and asked himself if that day were going to be the last day of his life, would he want to do what he was about to do that day.  If the answer was no too many days in a row, he knew something had to change.  email: [email protected]  Website:  http://joannthelifecoach.com