Marriage Therapy Radio

Ep 362 One Year In: Navigating Love, Honesty, and Growth with Robin and Hector


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Zach sits down with Robin and Hector, a couple one year into their relationship, to explore the joys, challenges, and growth that come with navigating love in its early stages. Unlike many expert-driven episodes, this one offers a fresh, unfiltered look at a real couple figuring things out in real-time.


Robin and Hector share how they met, how their past relationships shaped them, and what they’ve learned about vulnerability, communication, and emotional honesty in their first year together. They dive into the power of early boundaries, the difference between “healthy” and “unhealthy” tension, and how they navigate the complexities of blended family dynamics.


Zach explores their philosophy on love, self-awareness, and conflict resolution, bringing in his own reflections on how early dating sets the stage for long-term success. Whether you’re in a new relationship or looking for insight into your own, this episode is a candid, engaging look at love in motion.


Key Takeaways

Saying “Yes” to Growth

  • Hector reflects on his journey from introversion to embracing new experiences, both personally and in relationships.
  • Robin shares how she admires his willingness to stretch himself, even in moments of discomfort.
  • Meeting Online & The Hinge Effect

    • The couple met on Hinge, but their connection was sparked by deeper qualities—gratitude, curiosity, and values—rather than just profiles.
    • Robin shares how Hector’s thoughtful messages immediately stood out in a sea of online dating experiences.
    • Navigating the First Year of a Relationship

      • They discuss why vulnerability and emotional honesty played a key role in their fast-growing connection.
      • Hector made a conscious decision to be fully himself from day one, sharing his struggles and past experiences early on.
      • Blended Family Considerations

        • Both coming from previous marriages, they are taking a slow, intentional approach to introducing their children to one another.
        • Robin acknowledges that her past experiences have made her more protective of her kids’ emotional safety.
        • How to Handle Early Relationship Challenges

          • Robin shares how she pauses before reacting, checking whether an issue is truly about Hector or her own past experiences.
          • They reflect on what it means to be truly honest while still speaking with care and emotional intelligence.
          • Their “10/10” Relationship Mindset

            • When asked to rate their relationship, they both confidently answered 10/10—not because they’re perfect, but because they are fully committed and intentional.
            • They emphasize that a great relationship is built on gratitude, generosity, and self-awareness rather than perfection.

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