Many men don't realize how sitting around and not doing things in the house is a huge evolutionary turnoff for their wives, and also tends to create kids who don't respect you. This episode addresses this and also discusses a bit about the flip side, when women just lay around on their phones.

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Some people come into marital therapy assuming the therapist will recognize that they are awesome, far more awesome than their spouse, and they are hoping that the therapist metaphorically slaps some sense into their spouse, saying something like, "Don't you know how lucky you are to be married to this person?" Instead, the therapist usually ends up feeling bad for the spouse of this paragon of perfection, and helping this perfect being see their own faults and appreciate their spouse more. Today's episode can help you see the error of your ways if you find yourself thinking how lucky your spouse is! And follow me on Substack! ⁠⁠https://substack.com/@drpsychmom1⁠⁠!!

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Often, men think that after they make a bunch of money, their wives should change their daily activities from laundry and book club to HRT and screwing. This doesn't work, and threatens the entire structure of the marriage! Today, how to make sure you have empathy toward your wife's struggles with your success and don't engage in the cognitive distortion that money is only good!

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This can be a huge wakeup call if you're someone who looks down on your spouse for not trying individual therapy. If you're the critical partner... this episode is for you!

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This is just nonsensical and crazy-making for him and for you! How to be real with yourself and what to say instead, with scripts! And here's our upcoming groups! Reach out to join: [email protected].

Accountability In The New Year: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/accountability-in-the-new-year

Better Breakup: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/better-breakup-group

Embracing Sex After 50! https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/embracing-sex-after-50

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Thankfully I see this ideology very infrequently in practice but it's all over internet comments. Here's a helpful reframe if you've ever thought she deserves less because she was at home with the kids! And here's our upcoming groups! Reach out to join: [email protected].

Accountability In The New Year: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/accountability-in-the-new-year

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Are you really? Or could it be one of these issues underlying what seems to be a fear of hard work? Today's episode also includes an epiphany about overpreparing from my own earlier life!

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Got this question as well as the second one, "If you never used porn but want to start using it after a while in your relationship, isn't that the woman's fault?" I explain everything about porn and its impact on relationships at various stages, including some useful analogies as always, in this awesome episode!

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My sweater analogy.... and why people are drawn to people who are NOT a good fit! Here's our two upcoming groups I mentioned also. Better Breakup: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/better-breakup-grouphttps://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/better-breakup-group and Accountability In The New Year! https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/accountability-in-the-new-year They should be awesome, hope you sign up!

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Some guys are so bored with their partner that they execute foreplay like it's the Bataan Death March, or like Patrick Bateman in American Psycho without the murder, and then wonder why their wife's responsive desire doesn't kick in. If she thinks you're only into her if she does XYZ in bed, then it is adaptive and self-protective not to have sex with you, as it is actually only about sex to you and not about connecting with a woman you deeply love and desire. More about this in today's episode!

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