The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on your kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or members of my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. Podcast: NOT medical advice.

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The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten episodes:

06.01.2024
Remember ALL Women Can Compare You To Other Partners... You May Be Better Off If They Are Real Vs Imagined
Can't scrub your wife's brain clear of sexual thoughts or memories... and why you wouldn't want to! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Unique Challenges Of Being Married to...
05.29.2024
Do Women Like Bad Boys?
What is a "bad boy," do women like them, which women, and why Dylan McKay was so hot. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Unique Challenges Of Being Married...
05.26.2024
What Kind Of Parenting Leads To Low Intimacy Or Sexless Marriages?
Today we discuss what sort of parenting leads to adult children getting into their own sexless marriages later in life... and what to do about it! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most...
05.22.2024
Unique Challenges Of Being Married To Veterans/First Responders
Joining my episodes on men in IT, doctors, lawyers and CEO's! A listener wrote: "Topic Idea: Challenges associated with being married to veterans. I don't know if you have seen many vets in your practice over the years, but perhaps...
05.20.2024
How To Connect With Your Spouse In Daily Life... What Is Appropriate In Front Of Kids?
How to connect with your spouse in little bits of time! A practical episode to help couples structure time together if you never saw this modeled by your own parents. Also: "serious discussions" are not appropriate in front of your...
05.18.2024
Having Bad Sex Too Often Is Not The Goal Either
Some couples are having too MUCH sex... quick sex every day so that the man "doesn't have to masturbate" or ever feel any sexual frustration. The problem is that the woman, past the honeymoon stage, can become dissociated from her...
05.16.2024
You May Need To Remember Being A Younger Age To Empathize With Your Spouse
As always, I provide you with yet another awesome cognitive reframe to help you be the best partner you can be. This one has an anecdote from my own marriage to explain the difference between what makes men and women...
05.14.2024
When Men And Women Don't Have The Same Ideas For Retirement
In today's episode, I discuss the differences I've seen in what men vs women prioritize in retirement, as well as other variables that may impact these differences aside from gender. Great one to help you think deeper about your expectations...
05.10.2024
A Happy Life Vs A Meaningful Life
Many people chase a happy life... but eventually recognize that this is a moving target. Creating meaning is both easier and harder than looking for happiness, but ultimately is more fulfilling. Listen to how many people transition from happiness search...
05.08.2024
How Does Marriage Change At Midlife?
At 40, the developmental psychologist Erik Erikson says that we move from the "Intimacy vs Isolation" stage to "Generativity vs Despair." What does this mean for you as an individual and within your marriage? Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and...
05.06.2024
Remember, If You Do Everything For Your Child, They Will Turn Into An Underfunctioning Adult
Many people treat their child like they are completely incompetent... and then assume that, as an adult, their child will turn into a confident and competent adult. This is setting them up to fail. Here are the ways that overfunctioning...
05.02.2024
There Is No Amount Of Time Spent With Your Avoidant Husband That Will Be Enough
Time spent with an avoidant guy is like junk food. No amount will fill you up, because it's not the quality you need. Start asking for the right things versus the wrong things, and this may move the needle! Subscribe if...
04.30.2024
Make Your Own Money
If you are a woman, and someone tells you what you can and cannot buy at Target, this is like being a child. Here's why not to get into this dynamic. Also covered: compulsive shopping, family of origin impact on...
04.28.2024
It's Usually Normal That Your Wife Is Stressed Out... And What To Do When It's Not
Most women feel stressed out regularly. In reality, humans are supposed to feel stressed, it actually helps us perform better. Listen to be reminded of the Yerkes Dodson Law that you may have learned in Psych 101, and also to...
04.26.2024
What To Do When The Kids Walk All Over Your Wife
This episode can be a huge wake up call for men who blame their wife for being too passive. Look inward and into your past for clues on why you may be making this worse. Included: an actionable script for...
04.22.2024
The Same Hormones That Made Her Feel Crazy Are Leaving The Building
Remember, there is a real true positive of your wife's hormonal decrease! Listen and learn, grasshopper. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: " Don't Take Tracking Your Wife's Ovulation To...
04.20.2024
Of Course Women Are Sad When Their Sex Drives Decrease
Some men think women don't care. Do you not care when you can't run as fast anymore? Everyone minds aging. But it happens anyway, and acceptance of this while acknowledging the sadness is important work. Send this to your husband...
04.18.2024
5 Things To Say When Your Wife Is Mad
What's covered in this awesome episode? Why, only five ways to instantly defuse conflict with your wife! Listen and learn. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: " Don't Take Tracking...
04.14.2024
What Motivates My Desire To Help Couples Understand Each Other
The answer may surprise you, and motivate you even more to start your own couples therapy! The discussion covers my own experiences as well. Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber...
04.12.2024
COVID Codependence
Some couples got way too enmeshed during COVID and have struggled ever since with the re-integration of extended family, going back to work, and hobbies/friends. In this episode, I go into depth about this phenomenon and tell you how to...
04.10.2024
Working Together: Good Idea Or Terrible For Your Marriage?
I have many clients who work together, and it works well for some and poorly for others. Here's what makes this more and less likely to succeed! And I also work with my husband so I give you my own...
04.06.2024
Some Guy Equates A Breach Of Contract Between Partners In A Therapy Practice To A Sexless Marriage And My Response
Yet another man on the internet tries to mansplain stuff about sex to me even though I am literally a person who tells women to have more sex. Hey guess what everyone, men aren't pure victims. Just like women aren't....
04.04.2024
Retroactive Jealousy: When You're Obsessed With Your Partner's Past
What is retroactive jealousy and why do some people struggle with it so much? Many reasons are covered in this podcast episode, including the one where you actually are worrying for a good reason! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and...
04.01.2024
The Pros And Cons Of Starting Your Relationship As Friends
If you originally met as friends, it can be difficult to transition into romance... but you usually have a strong foundation of mutual respect. Can you be attracted to someone you met as a friend? Can you fully transition into...
03.27.2024
Financial Abuse And Control
Financial control and abuse can be insidious. If your partner is the only one allowed to buy things or make decisions about how money can be spent, or if you have no idea how money is managed or what accounts...
03.25.2024
Nobody "Has The Power" In An Unhappy Marriage
Often, men think that the woman "holds the power" if she has a lower sex drive... just like how women think the man "holds the power" if he has a lower desire to be emotionally close. The reality is that...
03.21.2024
Responsive ROMANCE!
Remember, more women have sex when they don't want to than men are romantic when they don't want to be... because men more are avoidant. So here's what to think about if you think romance should be "organic"... based on...
03.19.2024
If Your Wife Finds You Attractive It Doesn't Really Matter (In This Sense)
It doesn't really matter how hot your wife thinks you are, although you can certainly be hoodwinked by an entire industry looking to tell you that becoming hotter will lead to more sex. Here's why and how attraction doesn't matter......
03.17.2024
Sex Positive/High Libido Women May Feel MORE Of A Drop Hormonally With Age
Whenever I post about the incendiary idea that humans age and drives decline, some women say they are more comfortable now than when younger, which can compensate. In this episode, I discuss high vs low libido women over time, and...
03.13.2024
Don't "Try To Be More Interesting" To Make People Interested In You
Many preoccupied attachment people think they need to develop extra hobbies or travel more or make themselves "more interesting" in order to attract people or maintain the interest of their spouse. This is not accurate. Do things you want to...
03.11.2024
Fighting About Loading The Dishwasher? Listen To This
This is a huge waste of the only time you have on this planet. Listen up for what you're really fighting about and how to think about it differently. This went longer as expected as I touched on individual-level, couples-level,...
03.09.2024
"I Just Want To Be Alone" Is Now Considered A Healthy Female Ideal
It's the era of no touch! Women who feel this way are now extolled in the media. Why this hurts marriages... but also individuals, and how to situate this in the context of social trends. Subscribe if you love the DPM...
03.05.2024
Why Being A Good Stepdad Gets Men A Lot Of Love And How To Approximate This Effect If You're Not A Stepdad
I have long noticed that guys who remarry women with kids get a lot of love from their wives, and this topic just came up in my Facebook group as well. And it's my own situation, fwiw! What is the...
03.03.2024
Nostalgia For Your "Prime" And How This Impacts Men And Women
The prime years of your life can look different based on your personality, gender, and values. Here is how nostalgia for your "prime" looks for many men and women I see in my practice, and how this impacts their relationship...
03.01.2024
Why Men Nowadays Don't Know That Drive Drops For Men After The Honeymoon Stage And With Age
Men in earlier generations admitted this freely. Here's why they don't anymore! Included: The Coolidge Effect, testosterone, porn, and more! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Dirty...
02.26.2024
Yes, Sex Is A Proxy For Connection. But, Connection Shouldn't Be Your Central Obsession Either!
Sometimes preoccupied attachment guys use my podcasts to tell their wives how it is normal for them to be super invested in their sex lives because sex is a proxy for intimacy and connection. But keep in mind that connecting...
02.24.2024
Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce
If you're finding this very difficult, then here's a breakdown of why and what to do! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Sulking When You Don't Get Laid Is...
02.22.2024
"Gaming" or "Hacking" Your Wife Makes Her Respect You Much, Much Less
Some guys go beyond "working on their marriage" and think they can somehow "hack" their wife to make her constantly desire them. This is silly and makes your wife think of you like a child. Here's how this dynamic plays...
02.18.2024
Should Your Husband "Be Happy With What He Gets" In Bed?
Well, I guess you'd have to ask yourself... what is he getting in bed? This episode includes a whole bunch of extra info and includes various situations where your husband might want to think deeper about why he is unhappy!...
02.16.2024
What To Say To Your Husband When You Don't Want Sex... Instead Of Mean Stuff
Someone asked, "As the higher drive spouse in my marriage I do most of the initiating and hear “no” pretty frequently. Some no’s feel a lot more like a rejection than others. This is usually when they are accompanied by...
02.14.2024
Happy Valentine's Day... Here's How To Make It Good!
What can you do RIGHT NOW to make this an awesome Valentine's Day, and why "Hallmark holiday" is a foolish term that translates to "I'm closed minded, difficult, and avoidant." Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my...
02.10.2024
When in Rome... Have Sex! (The Impact Of Confident Momentum)
If you use confident momentum, your wife will have sex... You're cultivating that culture! When in Rome... Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Partner Sends You So...
02.08.2024
The Words To Look Out For To Avoid Women Who Will Stop Liking Sex
Listen to this episode to save you from later heartache!! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Your Partner Sends You So Many Memes And Videos"! For my secret Facebook...
02.06.2024
What Does It Mean When Women On Dating Apps Don't Share Their Phone Numbers?
I'll tell you what they think it means... but why if I were your therapist, I would tell you to watch out! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why...
02.02.2024
Doing Chores Doesn't Turn Women On, But...
Doing chores may not literally act as foreplay, but it certainly does turn women on in one sense. Listen and learn! Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "If Your...
01.31.2024
Should You Wait To Have Sex With New Partner Because Of Oxytocin Being Released Or Whatever BS Theory You Read Online?
You may be able to tell what I think of this from the title but listen up to hear why waiting months to have sex with a new partner is not very smart if you value sexual compatibility long term! Subscribe...
01.27.2024
Who Are The Men Who Get Treated Like Kings?
In a post about why some women get "treated like princesses" (https://www.drpsychmom.com/treated-like-a-princess/) I discuss how some women feel that it is random and unlucky that they don't get treated well by men, or that women who do get treated well...
01.25.2024
When Your Mental Health Improves... And It Tanks Your Marriage
This is very common, although people tend to be surprised by it. One person works on their anxiety, anger, depression, or anything else, and instead of the marriage getting better... it implodes! Here's why this happens, the movie I recommend...
01.23.2024
Does Couples Therapy Really Improve Sex Lives?
It sure does! I see this in my virtual office every day. But, this is not linear progress, and it's based on a whole bunch of variables. Listen and see if you and your partner would potentially be good candidates...
01.19.2024
When Women Are Scared To Be Alone With Kids
This is very common in women who have undiagnosed or unrecognized depression, anxiety, and/or childhood trauma. Listen to see if it may resonate with you more than you would guess! And if you're a husband... listen if you have come...

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The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten episodes:

Remember ALL Women Can Compare You To Other Partners... You May Be Better Off If They Are Real Vs Imagined

Do Women Like Bad Boys?

What Kind Of Parenting Leads To Low Intimacy Or Sexless Marriages?

Unique Challenges Of Being Married To Veterans/First Responders

How To Connect With Your Spouse In Daily Life... What Is Appropriate In Front Of Kids?

Having Bad Sex Too Often Is Not The Goal Either

You May Need To Remember Being A Younger Age To Empathize With Your Spouse

When Men And Women Don't Have The Same Ideas For Retirement

A Happy Life Vs A Meaningful Life

How Does Marriage Change At Midlife?

Remember, If You Do Everything For Your Child, They Will Turn Into An Underfunctioning Adult

There Is No Amount Of Time Spent With Your Avoidant Husband That Will Be Enough

Make Your Own Money

It's Usually Normal That Your Wife Is Stressed Out... And What To Do When It's Not

What To Do When The Kids Walk All Over Your Wife

The Same Hormones That Made Her Feel Crazy Are Leaving The Building

Of Course Women Are Sad When Their Sex Drives Decrease

5 Things To Say When Your Wife Is Mad

What Motivates My Desire To Help Couples Understand Each Other

COVID Codependence

Working Together: Good Idea Or Terrible For Your Marriage?

Some Guy Equates A Breach Of Contract Between Partners In A Therapy Practice To A Sexless Marriage And My Response

Retroactive Jealousy: When You're Obsessed With Your Partner's Past

The Pros And Cons Of Starting Your Relationship As Friends

Financial Abuse And Control

Nobody "Has The Power" In An Unhappy Marriage

Responsive ROMANCE!

If Your Wife Finds You Attractive It Doesn't Really Matter (In This Sense)

Sex Positive/High Libido Women May Feel MORE Of A Drop Hormonally With Age

Don't "Try To Be More Interesting" To Make People Interested In You

Fighting About Loading The Dishwasher? Listen To This

"I Just Want To Be Alone" Is Now Considered A Healthy Female Ideal

Why Being A Good Stepdad Gets Men A Lot Of Love And How To Approximate This Effect If You're Not A Stepdad

Nostalgia For Your "Prime" And How This Impacts Men And Women

Why Men Nowadays Don't Know That Drive Drops For Men After The Honeymoon Stage And With Age

Yes, Sex Is A Proxy For Connection. But, Connection Shouldn't Be Your Central Obsession Either!

Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce

"Gaming" or "Hacking" Your Wife Makes Her Respect You Much, Much Less

Should Your Husband "Be Happy With What He Gets" In Bed?

What To Say To Your Husband When You Don't Want Sex... Instead Of Mean Stuff

Happy Valentine's Day... Here's How To Make It Good!

When in Rome... Have Sex! (The Impact Of Confident Momentum)

The Words To Look Out For To Avoid Women Who Will Stop Liking Sex

What Does It Mean When Women On Dating Apps Don't Share Their Phone Numbers?

Doing Chores Doesn't Turn Women On, But...

Should You Wait To Have Sex With New Partner Because Of Oxytocin Being Released Or Whatever BS Theory You Read Online?

Who Are The Men Who Get Treated Like Kings?

When Your Mental Health Improves... And It Tanks Your Marriage

Does Couples Therapy Really Improve Sex Lives?

When Women Are Scared To Be Alone With Kids