Jayson sits down with Duane Mullner to talk about the role of the therapist or coach. Why is the here and now so important? Can clients help their coaches and therapists? How should you prepare for a session? What should you do with a client who isn’t making progress? How can you help clients who are stuck in victimhood? Don’t miss this chance to hear Duane Mullner share the wisdom he has accumulated over his long career.

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• 6:44 - What is the role of the therapist/coach
• 15:30 - What’s going on between therapist and client?
• 20:31 - Why is the here and now so important?
• 27:39 - Don’t make resistance wrong
• 34:35 - How clients help coaches and therapists
• 41:46 - How to prepare for a session
• 44:51 - Making progress with clients
• 54:18 - How to help people who are in their victimhood
• 1:07:00 - Should you trust clients to treat you about their problems?

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Jayson breaks down how to coach yourself using AI and shares a variety of example prompts. Can AI offer constructive criticism? What can it do with astrology and Gene Keys? Can it give you a tough-love wake-up call? Stick around until the end to learn how you can use AI to get the most out of your therapy sessions!

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• 2:40 - Ways to use AI as a client
• 4:52 - Using AI for constructive criticism
• 7:50 - Astrology
• 10:27 - Tough love
• 13:36 - Getting the most out of therapy

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Jayson discusses the role of AI in the therapy and coaching space. Will AI replace therapists and coaches? Can it ever be better than a real coach or therapist? What are the downsides of using AI to coach yourself? Stay tuned until the end of the episode to find out how you can thrive—rather than just survive—as a coach or therapist in the age of AI.

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• 5:42 - Price point
• 9:10 - Who will lose their jobs?
• 12:53 - What AI can't replace
• 19:24 - AI and intuition
• 23:47 - How should coaches and therapists adapt to AI?

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If you want to get the most out of therapy or coaching, it’s important to know how to be a great client. In this episode, Jayson shares his experience of being a client and breaks down how you can make sure you’re getting the results you want. Is it ever okay not to make progress? Learn how to advocate for yourself, prepare for your sessions, stay accountable to friends and family, and much more in this episode!

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• 1:40 - Is it okay not to make progress?
• 4:01 - Jayson's story
• 8:51 - How to be a good client
• 15:53 - When to have a frank conversation with your coach or therapist

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Clinical psychologist Alexandra Solomon joins Jayson to offer valuable advice for therapists and coaches. What are the unique challenges of working with men in couples work? How should therapists and coaches manage countertransference? What common issues are individuals bringing to therapy these days? And how can therapists help people most effectively? Find the answers to these questions—and more—in this insightful episode!

Timestamps:

• 10:11 - Gendered issues in therapy
• 19:45 - Individuals vs couples therapy
• 26:45 - Countertransference
• 39:23 - Advice for new practitioners

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Jayson and Ellen have started a new podcast!

Integrated is for entrepreneurial couples who want both a high-impact career and an exceptional partnership. Jayson and Ellen blend cutting-edge relationship science with decades of coaching experience to help you balance leadership at home and in business, fostering deeper connection and lasting success.

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In this episode Jayson and Ellen talk about five reasons why being a team is so hard. How do culture and personal history impact teamwork? Is your sense of entitlement holding you back from effective collaboration? How can differences between people make for a stronger team? Find the answers to these questions and more in this episode!

Timestamps:

• 1:00 - 5 reasons why being a team is so hard
• 1:47 - Cultural backdrop
• 7:00 - Personal history
• 11:49 - Your entitlement
• 16:56 - Differences
• 20:41 - Sharing leadership takes time

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What’s wrong with going into fix-it mode when someone shares their problems?

Jayson explains why it’s better to offer understanding rather than jumping in with solutions—and how people are more likely to come up with their own answers when they feel truly heard.

Timestamps:

• 0:03 - What's wrong with "fix-it" mode?
• 3:49 - Reflecting instead of fixing
• 7:08 - Giving people space to come up with their own solutions
• 8:30 - Understanding first, then solutions

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How should you coach someone who wants to be in a successful relationship? Jayson breaks it down. Do you need to have successful relationships yourself to coach effectively? How can you teach your clients the skills they need to develop, and what does that process look like? Don’t miss this insightful episode.

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• 0:36 - You have to have successful relationships
• 7:05 - Skill acquisition
• 13:27 - Don't be uncomfortable with intimacy

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Jayson breaks down motivational interviewing. What is it? Can you force your clients to change? What should you do if a client is ambivalent about change? Is your client placing value on the right things? Whether you're a coach or a client, you won’t want to miss this insightful episode.

Timestamps:

• 1:50 - Placing value on the right things
• 3:34 - Motivational interviewing
• 5:57 - Ambivalence about change
• 11:37 - You can't force people to change

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Jayson explores the pros and cons of coaching. Is coaching more effective than therapy? He discusses the lack of standards in coaching, the absence of trauma training, and the potential shallowness of the approach. Jayson also examines why prioritizing results over feelings can be problematic. However, he also highlights why coaching can sometimes be a better option than therapy. Why choose coaching? Tune in to find out.

Timestamps:

• 0:57 - A lack of standards
• 4:26 - Results over feelings
• 7:47 - Does coaching get better results?
• 14:10 - Conclusion

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• Become A Certified Relationship Coach (RCT) 
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