In this empowering episode of Destress The Nest, host Hannah Morgan sits down with marriage coach Michelle Purta to explore the radical yet transformative concept of loving yourself most—especially after becoming a parent. Michelle shares how prioritizing your own well-being isn’t selfish—it’s the foundation for deepening intimacy, improving communication, and reigniting joy in your relationship. Tune in for a refreshing perspective on how self-love can create more connection, patience, and fulfillment in both marriage and motherhood.

Key Takeaways

• Loving yourself most is not selfish—it’s essential for healthy relationships.

• When you take care of your needs, you increase your capacity for patience, compassion, and joy.

• Self-love empowers you to advocate for your needs, set boundaries, and have deeper intimacy.

• Many women lose their sense of self in motherhood; reconnecting with who you are is critical for a thriving marriage.
• Ask yourself: Am I designing my life, or just living out a script handed to me?

• “When we love ourselves most, we truly embody kindness—not just for others, but for ourselves.”

• “Things go from romance to responsibility so quickly after kids, but that doesn’t mean love has to fade.”

• “We’ve been taught to run ourselves ragged for everyone else—what if there’s a better way?”

• “When you know yourself deeply, you become magnetic—you radiate joy, creativity, and compassion.”

• “You can’t be fully known and loved in a marriage if you don’t even know who you are.”

Resources Mentioned

• Learn more about Michelle Purta’s coaching services and how she helps moms and couples reignite their marriages at michellepurtacoaching.com.

• Follow Michelle on Instagram for relationship tips and inspiration: @michellepurtacoaching

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