Join me and James as he tells a story of his movie plot-worthy sexual debut and how his understanding of consent and his own sexuality has shifted over time. In this episode, we cover topics including gender identity, sexual orientation, demi-sexuality, consent, the (problematic) role of alcohol in sexual scripts, (un)healthy relationships, and how to grow up and learn more about yourself. Digressions include yelling about New Jersey, my cat interrupting, and lots of Burlesque. 

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Intro music by Dave Hansen 

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