In this episode, I sit down with erotic leadership expert Kimi Inch to explore how conscious kink mirrors psychedelic journeys through ego death, altered states, and deep surrender. We dive into power dynamics, archetypes, and how resistance, shame, and desire can all be transformed into intimacy and healing. A playful, provocative conversation that redefines kink as a path to liberation and embodiment.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

00:28 Intro02:44 Enter the Kink Queen07:37 First Lingerie, First Dungeon19:20 Safety in Surrender31:15 Eros vs. Ego40:11 Feeling More Than Touch52:23 The Power of Not Surrendering

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Kimi Inch is an intimacy coach and conscious kink guide who helps people unlock their erotic energy and step into their most powerful selves. With over 20 years of experience in Tantra, sacred sexuality, and somatic therapy, she has worked with thousands of clients worldwide. Her work has been featured on platforms like The Oprah Winfrey Network, SXSW, Princeton University, and Nightline. As a sensual alchemist and sex-positive educator, Kimi creates safe, playful spaces for people to explore hidden parts of themselves and discover new pathways to healing and pleasure.

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In this episode, I sit down with Harvard-trained fertility expert Gabriela Rosa to talk about the real truth of conception, from myths about infertility and IVF success rates to the emotional impact of grief, trauma, and stress. We explore fertility as a shared responsibility between partners and how to prepare your body and mind for pregnancy. Honest, practical, and deeply vulnerable, this conversation offers hope and actionable steps for anyone on the fertility journey.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

00:27 Intro

09:04 Fertility as a Shared Responsibility

14:02 Global & Cultural Perspectives

17:07 Spiritual & Biological Bypassing

24:38 Overreliance on IVF39:03 Navigating Motherhood & Career Transition

41:50 Facing Grief & Learning Equanimity

56:19 Practical Advice: Pretend You’re Pregnant Now

1:02:16 Differential Obstacles & Individualized Solutions

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Gabriela Rosa is a fertility specialist, reproductive health educator, entrepreneur, and Harvard University–awarded scholar. She is the founder and CEO of The Rosa Institute, the world’s first fully virtual holistic fertility clinic, where she leads a team of specialists serving patients worldwide. Rosa has educated over 140,000 couples in more than 110 countries and is recognized as a leading authority on overcoming infertility and recurrent miscarriage through her integrative methodology. She is also the host of the TalkSex with Gabriela Rosa™ podcast.

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The Rosa Institute: https://fertilitybreakthrough.com/

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Psychotherapist and educator Dee Dee Goldpaugh joins me to explore how psychedelics can support survivors of sexual trauma in reclaiming pleasure, embodiment, and power. We unpack eroticism as a life force, the stigma of pleasure in healing spaces, and the nuance of recovered memories during psychedelic journeys. This episode is a deep dive into love, safety, and the nervous system, reminding us that joy isn’t a luxury; it’s essential to our collective healing.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

00:27 Intro

07:32 The Censorship of Pleasure in Psychedelic Spaces

11:26 Redefining Erotic Relationships and Power

17:22 Are You Healed Enough to Help Others Heal?

23:38 Leisure vs. Pleasure and Capitalist Disconnection

41:43 The Six Stages of Psychedelic Healing

48:36 Love as Spiritual Practice

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Dee Dee Goldpaugh is a psychotherapist, educator, clinical supervisor, consultant, and leading voice in the development of psychedelic integration psychotherapy, specifically with survivors of sexual trauma. Goldpaugh is a facilitator of ketamine-assisted retreats for both couples and individuals and has taught and published widely on psychedelics and sexuality, trauma, gender, and spirituality. A frequent presenter at international conferences and trainings, Goldpaugh lives in Woodstock, New York.

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Dee Dee’s Instagram: @deedeegoldpaughDee Dee’s Website: https://www.deedeegoldpaugh.com/Buy Dee Dee’s Book, Embrace Pleasure: How Psychedelics Can Heal Our Sexuality here:

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Dr. Betty Martin, creator of the Wheel of Consent and author of The Art of Receiving and Giving joins me for a powerful conversation on intimacy, boundaries, and self-trust. With decades of experience in body-based healing, Betty shares simple yet profound insights on how we give, receive, and relate. Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode offers fresh perspective on connection, consent, and reclaiming your authentic desires.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:27 Intro

13:19 Nuance in Consent and Touch

15:15 When 'Yes' Doesn’t Mean Perform

27:56 Trusting Your Inner “No”

38:57 Owning Your Sexual Expression

54:44 Are you making choices from fear or inner knowing?

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Dr. Betty Martin is a retired chiropractor, surrogate partner, and renowned educator with over four decades of experience in therapeutic touch and somatic practices. She is the developer of the Wheel of Consent, a groundbreaking framework for understanding the dynamics of giving and receiving, applicable in both touch and non-touch settings. As the author of The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent, Dr. Martin has trained professionals around the world and now mentors practitioners across a range of disciplines, including psychotherapy, sex education, and bodywork.

LINKS:

https://www.wheelofconsent.org/Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BettyMartin

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Author and Rosebud Woman founder Christine Mason joins me to explore what it means to live erotically and powerfully through every stage of womanhood. We dive into her work on aging, agency, and discernment—from embracing our sensuality at any age to navigating later-age motherhood with clarity and choice. Christine shares insights from The 9 Lives of Women, breaking down cultural narratives around sex, aging, and reproductive freedom. We also discuss the importance of body rituals, intergenerational healing, and how staying embodied can support a vibrant, empowered life well into elderhood.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:27 Intro

07:45 What does it really mean to age erotically?

17:41 You Are All Your Ages at Once

20:37 Let Your Future Self Guide You Back to Joy

27:56 Motherhood, Choice, and the Shifting Narrative

44:23 Are you making choices from fear or inner knowing?

49:18 The Joy of Growing Older (And Why You Won’t Want to Go Back)

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Christine is a six-time founder and CEO, with a deep interest in women's wellness and the liberation of all people. She's a futurist, a yogi, tantrika, mother of 4, and grandmother. She's the author of Reverence (2021), The Nine Gifts (2020), The Invitation (2018) and Body Love, as well as 5 other books, and the co-founder a meditation center and medicinal farm on Hawaii. She's appeared on radio, tv, print and podcasts (from NPR to Vogue to TEDx), speaking to entrepreneurship, freeing the mind and body, activism and sexual and intimate wellness. French, German. MBA, Phi Beta Kappa Northwestern University. PhD student in Philosophy and Consciousness at CIIS. She splits her time between the farm (with the chickens, cats and goats!) and Mill Valley, CA.

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https://christinemariemason.com/https://rosewoman.com/products/the-9-lives-of-woman-sensual-sexual-and-reproductive-stages-from-birth-to-100?variant=46367720210686https://www.amazon.com/Nine-Lives-Woman-Sensual-Reproductive/dp/B0F2CGTYV4170: Menopause Transitions and Plant Medicines with Dr. Suzanne Gilberg

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In this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics, I dive into the deliciously tangled dance between love, power, money, and self-worth in modern relationships. I’m joined by my dear friend and powerhouse, Michelle Pound — a love, money, and pleasure mentor who helps men find their queens and women rise into the goddesses they were always meant to be.

Together, we explore how cultural conditioning around success and validation shapes the way we love, the hidden ways we outsource our safety to others, and how longing and financial dynamics can quietly erode intimacy. We also dive into the art of reclaiming our emotional power — and why true love begins when we choose ourselves first.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:28 Intro

01:19 Girl Boss Burnout and the Fantasy of Being Saved

02:28 What Are We Really Seeking

04:05 Power Imbalances: Where Are We Giving It Away?

16:46 Money, Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, and Relationship Power

37:20 Healing the Fear of Receiving

50:43 Choosing Yourself (Even When It’s Hard)

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Michelle is a mentor in love, money, and pleasure, guiding men and women who are ready to have it all — deep love, high-level success, and a life that turns them all the way on.Through private mentorship, transformational coaching containers, and immersive in-person experiences, she helps men find their queens and empowers women to rise fully into the goddess they were always meant to be.

As a Shibari artist and curator of sacred, sensual spaces, Michelle creates experiences where the body becomes a temple and every moment is an initiation into deeper power, presence, and pleasure.

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The Peter Pan archetype—why it’s so damn fun, how it sparks playfulness and passion in relationships, and when it starts working against us. From lover boys and lover girls to the shadow side of avoidance, we explore how to embrace the magic without losing ourselves. Is it love, or just a beautifully wrapped distraction? Tune in for insights on balancing spontaneity with emotional depth, so you can cultivate relationships that are both exciting and fulfilling.

In this episode you’ll hear:

01:32 Why This Episode Almost Never Made It

03:19 The Peter Pan Archetype—Flirty Fun or Red Flag?

08:26 How Archetypes Help Us Grow in Love

12:06 Keeping Romance Alive: The Art of Flirting & Creativity

15:56 Are You the Peter Pan or the Wendy in Your Relationship?

19:06 Are You Dating the Person or the Fantasy?

24:19 Breaking Free from Repeating Patterns in Love

28:29 Your Invitation to Play, Love, and Grow

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Menopause is a transition every woman goes through, yet so much of it is misunderstood. This week on Sex Love Psychedelics, I sit down with Dr. Suzanne Gilberg to explore the emotional, physical, and hormonal shifts of perimenopause and menopause. From navigating changes in libido and intimacy to the emerging role of psychedelics in symptom relief, we break the stigma and bring the science. Because when it comes to aging, sexuality, and well-being, knowledge isn’t just power—it’s liberation.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:27 Impact of Fires in Los Angeles

09:42 Meeting Dr. Suzanne Gilberg

10:43 The Perimenopause & Menopause Rollercoaster

21:40 Spotting the Early Signs of Perimenopause

25:05 How Hormones Shape Your Sex Life

34:09 Psychedelics for Women’s Health

44:51 Hormone Therapy—Making Informed Choices for Your Health

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Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz, MD, is a board-certified OB/GYN, integrative medicine practitioner, and fierce advocate for women’s health. Blending Western medicine with holistic healing, she empowers women to navigate perimenopause and menopause with confidence, knowledge, and vitality. As the Chief Medical Correspondent for The Drew Barrymore Show and author of Menopause Bootcamp, Dr. Suzanne is on a mission to revolutionize the conversation around aging, hormones, and self-care—one candid, science-backed, and empowering discussion at a time.

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https://www.facebook.com/askdrsuzanne/

https://themenopausebootcamp.com/course/certification-course/

https://twitter.com/askdrsuzanne

https://www.linkedin.com/in/askdrsuzanne/

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Are you attuning to your partner’s needs, or projecting your fears onto them? This week on Sex Love Psychedelics, we’re diving into the delicate dance of communication in intimate relationships. From fears of rejection to cultural conditioning, I explore how self-awareness and presence can shift the way we express desires, needs, and boundaries. Because when it comes to creating a long-lasting, conscious relationship, communication isn’t just important—it’s everything.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:06 Tackling those love, sex, and dating hurdles!

04:30 Are you attuning or just guessing?

15:08 The Role of Words in Communication

21:25 Breaking Free from Cultural Conditioning and Barriers

30:02 Keeping it Real and why congruency is a Total Game-changer

34:56 Practical Tips to Up Your Communication Game

35:39 Addressing Internal Beliefs and Conditioning

36:51 How Therapy Helps Improve Communication

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In this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics, I’m chatting with the incredible Maryn Azoff to dive into the magic of vocal activation and how it can take your pleasure, manifestation, and self-empowerment to new heights! Recorded on Election Day (perfect timing to talk about the throat chakra and owning our voice), we uncover how vocal practices like chanting create juicy energy shifts that amplify intimacy, unlock self-expression, and connect us with our wild, authentic selves. Tune in for this playful, powerful conversation on finding your voice and using it to create your reality!

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:06 Kicking Things Off!

05:52 Unleashing the Power of the Throat Chakra (and Letting Go)

09:07 Tongue & Voice Magic for Manifesting Dreams

12:13 Sexy Sound: How Voice Fuels Sexuality

13:23 Expansive Orgasms and Kundalini Vibes

24:14 Voice as a Healing Superpower

44:18 Plant Medicine, Surrender, and Finding Your True Voice

48:09 Trippy Tunes: Voice Meets Psychedelic Experiences

51:53 Speak Up! How Voice Transforms Intimacy and Relationships

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Maryn Azoff is a Vocal Transformation Coach, classically trained singer, and “soul emancipator,” dedicated to awakening people to the profound power of their own voice through her unique healing program, The Vocal Transformation Method. With roots in diverse lineages and ancient wisdom practices, Maryn’s approach merges global vocal traditions to help individuals access their authentic voice and true vibrational frequency. Her work guides people toward healing and connection, reactivating the body-mind-spirit connection for wellness within themselves and for the planet.

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SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course

Exhale: Femme Ketamine Retreat

Maryn’s Vocal Transformation Website

Maryn’s Instagram: @vocal_transformation

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