In this episode, I’m sharing a message the Lord placed heavily on my heart about the quiet epidemic of women idolizing men and romance. From “boy-crazy” childhood messages in media, to personal stories from my own life, we’ll uncover the signs that you may be putting a man in God’s place and the practical steps to break free from that cycle.

We’ll talk about:

• 5 signs you might be idolizing men or romance
• 5 ways to stop centering men in your life
• What Jesus meant when He offered “Living Water” to the Samaritan woman in John 4
• How to root your worth and identity in Christ alone

This isn’t a message of judgment—it’s a message of freedom. God wants to fill the spaces you’ve been trying to satisfy with men and give you the peace, clarity, and wholeness only He can provide.

📝 Homework:

1. Journal Reflection: Write down 3 ways you may have placed men (or marriage) in God’s rightful place in your heart. Be honest, even if it’s uncomfortable.

2. Scripture Anchor: Meditate on Ephesians 2:10 (you are God’s masterpiece) and John 4:13–14 (Jesus as the Living Water). Write down what these verses mean for your identity.

3. Practical Step: Take a 7-day break from any content that triggers romantic idolization (rom-coms, love songs, celebrity couples on IG). Replace that time with prayer, worship, or something that nurtures your personal gifts.

Resources Mentioned in the Show:

• With the Perry’s Podcast: Christian Dating is Hard: https://youtu.be/ac-TrYUD8R4?si=RSIewhKOGLQYNTBd
• Decentering Men: How to Build a Life that Doesn’t Revolve Around Romance| To My Sisters Podcast: https://youtu.be/RqmlezRLvRA?si=UOKZNoy9cyJkmyf_

Resources to Help You on Your Journey

FREE 30-Day Bible Reading Plan for Beginners: https://marvelous-leader-8943.kit.com/1d791b2508

Mom Keys to Mental Peace: 12 Tips to Become a Healthy Mom and Raise Healthy Children by Tari Butler: https://amzn.to/3irvQrj

Life Application Study Bible: https://amzn.to/48ojqp7

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Prayer of Salvation

If you’re ready to invite Jesus into your heart and begin a new life in Him, please pray this prayer with me:

"Dear God, I come to You in the name of Jesus. I admit that I am a sinner and I ask for Your forgiveness. I believe that Jesus Christ is Your Son, and that He died for my sins and rose from the dead. I turn from my sins and invite You to come into my heart and life. I want to trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior. Thank You for loving me and giving me eternal life. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen."

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