Create Your Fate

EP187: Stop Asking “Is It Hard?” Start Asking This Instead


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"Most of the time, when you say 'it's not worth it,' what you really mean is I'M not worth it. " -- Meg

In this episode:

  • Your decisions should be based on worth and alignment with your future self, not fear, difficulty, or cost.
  • What you focus on expands—shifting your focus from obstacles to value changes your entire experience.
  • Self-worth directly impacts decision-making; when you say “It’s not worth it,” you may actually mean “I’m not worth it.”
  • The cost of staying the same is often far greater than the cost of change—ask yourself, Will I look back and be grateful I did this?

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In today's episode, I dive into a powerful mindset shift that can change the way you make decisions: instead of asking “Is it hard?” or “Is it expensive?”, start asking “Is it worth it?” This simple reframe helps you make choices from a place of alignment with your future self, rather than fear or limitation.

When you start focusing on worth rather than obstacles, you align with your future self and create the life you truly want.

If you’re at a crossroads and struggling to make a decision, this episode is for you! And if you know someone who keeps talking themselves out of their dreams, send this episode their way!

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