“How to get along with difficult people has nothing to do with the other person. It has everything to do with you loving yourself and freeing yourself.” -- Meg

In this episode:

• How your thoughts about “that a-hole” instantly shift your vibration—and what that means for what you attract next.
• Why not taking things personally (online, in traffic, at work, in your family) is one of the most powerful energetic shields you’ll ever have.
• How to accept that everyone has a different model of the world, set clean boundaries, and choose who gets access to you—without dropping into drama.
• Why forgiveness (of others and yourself) is ultimately about your freedom, and how acting from love instead of fear keeps you in a high-vibe, manifesting state.

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People are frustrating. The driver who cuts you off, the barista who gets your order wrong, the friend who cancels last minute—if you let them, other people’s behavior can tank your mood and your vibration in a matter of seconds. In this episode, I walk you through a simple game to feel your energy shift in real time and show you how quickly your thoughts can pull you from high-vibe to low-vibe… and exactly why that matters if you care about the life you’re creating.

We’ll talk about why nobody can “make” you feel anything, how the Law of Attraction ties into your reactions, and how to stop wasting your energy trying to control, fix, or decode other people. Using concepts from The Four Agreements, the NLP idea of a “model of the world,” and some real-life stories (including being trolled online and even by my sweet grandma), I’ll give you seven powerful ways to protect your energy, keep your vibe high, and free yourself from other people’s drama—without becoming a doormat or bypassing boundaries.

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"Your purpose is never going to show up unless you do." -- Meg

In this episode:

• How to know when it’s time to pivot — and what it really takes to follow your calling
• The difference between believing you can and believing you deserve it
• Why letting go of how you think it “should” look always leads to something better
• How to design a life that feels aligned, joyful, and true to you

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It’s my birthday week! And in true Create Your Fate fashion, we’re celebrating with something I’ve never done before — an interview… with me. My longtime friend Christy took over the mic and asked me 10 powerful questions about my journey — from dental hygiene to fitness to coaching — and what I’ve learned about purpose, pivots, and trusting yourself along the way.

This conversation got deep. We talk joy, fear, worthiness, taking risks, and all the things that happen when you stop waiting for life to happen to you and start showing up for it. Whether you’re at your own “halfway point,” in a big transition, or just craving a reminder of how far you’ve come — this episode will reignite your self-belief and remind you why your story matters.

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“Ego doesn’t always say, ‘I’m better than you.’ Ego also says, ‘I’m not enough unless I’m everything for you.’” — Meg

In this episode:

• How to tell if you’re acting from protection (ego) or truth (essence)—using your body as the compass
• The barcode metaphor: why authenticity is the only way the universe can deliver what’s meant for you
• The sneaky ways ego hides behind “kindness” (people-pleasing, overgiving, overworking) and keeps you in fear
• Each Enneagram type’s superego message—and a simple practice to cut off the “IF” and return to “I AM”

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In today's episode, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood topics in personal growth: the difference between your essence and your ego. Most people hear “ego” and think of arrogance—but your ego can sound kind, humble, and helpful, while still being completely rooted in fear. It’s the version of you built to stay safe and accepted, but it often keeps you small and disconnected from who you really are.

I’ll show you how to spot the subtle ways ego shows up (even when it looks “good”), how to use your body to know if you’re acting from protection or truth, and how each Enneagram type’s superego message keeps you stuck in fear instead of flow. When you reconnect with your essence—your truth—you stop performing and start aligning with your most authentic self.

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" All of these things make you human -- the good and the "bad." ...Are you brave enough to discover them?" -- Meg

In this episode:

• The sneaky mindset that slows your growth (and how to spot it fast)
• Why “doing the work” doesn’t mean you’ll stop being human
• How to recognize when your growth mindset turns into perfectionism
• The shift from trying to “fix” yourself to simply being with yourself

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You’ve been doing the work — reading the books, listening to the podcasts, journaling, meditating, manifesting — all of it. You’ve healed, you’ve grown, and you’ve become so much more self-aware than you were a year ago. But lately, you’re frustrated. Because no matter how much progress you make, those old patterns still pop up — and every time they do, you can’t help but wonder, “How am I still dealing with this?”

In today’s episode, I’m not showing you something new to do to outgrow or expand into the next level of your evolution — I’m showing you the one thing you might be doing that’s actually blocking your growth and expansion. The thing that keeps you stuck in the loop of “not enough yet,” even when you’ve already come so far. Because the truth is, real growth doesn’t come from adding more to your plate — it comes from releasing what’s quietly working against you.

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“Your past doesn’t define you — it develops you.” -- Meg

In this episode:

• The real difference between a mistake and a regret — and why it matters.
• How to know when regret is secretly ruling your thoughts (and how to stop the spiral).
• The conscious shift that turns regret into your greatest teacher.
• A powerful reframe that helps you release shame and move forward lighter.

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Well… this isn’t your typical anniversary episode. Four years of Create Your Fate — and instead of a highlight reel, I’m sharing my biggest regrets. Not mistakes, but true regrets — the kind that used to rule me until I learned how to let them refine me instead. Because yes, everything really does work out for your highest good… but you can still wish you’d done a few things differently. In this episode, I’m opening up about the lessons behind those moments and how each one shaped the woman — and coach — I am today.

Regret doesn’t have to keep you stuck in “what if.” When you stop searching for a redo and start searching for the lesson, you get your power back. These moments taught me more than any win ever could, and I hope they help you see your own regrets through a softer, wiser lens.

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"A lot of us have a negative perception of envy. We were taught that wanting something that somebody else has is bad. And when you feel bad about this, guilt and then shame typically follow." -- Meg

In this episode:

• The key difference between jealousy and envy — and why that matters for your growth
• How envy can actually reveal your next aligned desire (instead of being something to hide)
• Why comparison sneaks up on us in the age of social media — and how to find peace with it
• Practical ways to shift envy into gratitude and use it as your energetic North Star

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After nearly a full year of pouring my heart, time, and energy into my book proposal — ten long months of writing, rewriting, and manifesting — the moment finally arrived. The email I’d been waiting for hit my inbox. In today's episode, I share what happened next — and the surprising emotion that showed up when I read those results.

This story turned into one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned about trust, alignment, and what it really means when someone else has the thing you want. We’re diving deep into envy — the emotion no one likes to admit to, but everyone feels. Together, we’ll break down the difference between jealousy and envy, uncover why envy isn’t as “ugly” as we’ve been taught, and learn how to turn it into a compass that guides you toward your true desires. You’ll walk away with a whole new understanding of comparison, gratitude, and how to use those emotions as powerful tools for self-awareness and growth.

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In This Episode:

• Life Cycles Numerology Book
• The Magic Gratitude Book

"Feminine energy isn’t about doing more—it’s about allowing yourself to be. It’s about receiving, surrendering, and stepping into your most authentic self." -- Tina Hines

In this episode:

• Why so many of us default to overdeveloped masculine energy—and the cost it carries.
• What feminine energy truly looks like in daily life (No, you don't have to wear dresses and heels everyday or never open your own door again).
• How embracing feminine energy can transform your relationships and deepen connection.
• How learning to receive and embrace vulnerability can completely transform your relationships.

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In today's episode, I’m joined once again by Tina Hines for a powerful conversation on the essence of feminine energy. Tina opens up about her personal awakening during an Ayahuasca ceremony, where she recognized how much she had been living from an overdeveloped masculine energy—and how everything shifted when she started embracing her feminine side.

Together, we explore how to balance the masculine and feminine within us, integrate profound retreat experiences into daily life, and use practices like breathwork, meditation, and gratitude to reconnect with self-worth and authenticity. If you’ve ever struggled with over-giving, pushing too hard, or feeling disconnected from your feminine essence, this conversation will give you both perspective and practical tools to shift.

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• The Keys to the Kingdom

"You’re not stuck because you aren’t capable—you’re stuck because of the story you’re telling yourself. And one tiny word can change that story." -- Meg

In this episode:

• Why “I’m not enough” statements keep you stuck in a cycle of shame and inaction.
• How the word yet rewires your brain and opens you to growth.
• Simple tools to practice “yet” in your everyday self-talk.
• How shifting your language changes your confidence, resilience, and relationships.

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In today's episode, we’re diving into the power of one small but mighty word: yet. I’m sharing a story about how comparison creeps in everywhere—especially on social media—and how easy it is to fall into the trap of “I’m not good enough.” This constant comparison fuels the spiral of self-doubt and makes us feel stuck, like we’ll never figure it out. But the truth is, comparison doesn’t have to keep you paralyzed—and the word yet can completely shift the way you see yourself and your potential.

We’ll break down why “I’m not enough” statements keep you in shame, how “yet” rewires your brain to stay open to growth, and simple practices you can use every day to stop spiraling and start moving forward with confidence.

If you’ve ever felt behind, caught yourself scrolling and comparing, or thought “I’ll never be good enough,” then this episode is for you.

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"Self-love is essentially the opposite of guilt because when you constantly say sorry, and you're communicating guilt, you are training your subconscious mind that you're at fault." -- Meg

In this episode:

• Why “sorry” has become an automatic habit for so many people.
• 8 common situations where you can stop apologizing right now.
• What to say instead that feels confident, respectful, and aligned.
• How apologizing on autopilot slowly chips away at your confidence.

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Do you catch yourself saying sorry all the time—when you haven’t actually done anything wrong? Maybe you apologize for bumping into someone in a crowded hallway, soften your requests with a quick sorry, or find yourself typing it into emails when you really mean thank you. If you’ve ever felt like you’re shrinking your energy to make others comfortable, or you want your words—and your apologies—to carry more power, this episode is for you.

Today, I’m breaking down why so many of us (especially women) over-apologize on autopilot, what it does to your energy, and how you can shift out of it. We’ll cover 8 times you’re probably apologizing when you don’t have to—that's a lot of unconscious guilt you are carrying into your day! You’ll learn how to make simple swaps that keep your energy strong, your presence confident, and your real apologies meaningful.

This is your invitation to stop shrinking, start taking up space, and show up with unapologetic confidence.

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"Healing the mother wound isn’t about blaming—it’s about reclaiming your power. And it has to happen from the inside out." — Angela Hare

In this episode:

• How the mother wound silently influences your relationships, career, friendships, and self-worth.
• Signs that the mother wound may be showing up in your life, even if you’re not a mom.
• How mother wounds can affect the way you show up in your life and relationships—and what you can do to shift them.
• How to reclaim your personal power and break generational patterns, regardless of your life stage.

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This conversation isn’t just for moms—mother wounds can affect anyone. They often show up as self-doubt, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, perfectionism, or repeating unhealthy patterns in relationships. I also share my own experiences, so listeners can recognize how these dynamics might appear in their own lives—whether in friendships, careers, romantic relationships, or how they show up for themselves.

In today's episode, I sit down with Create Your Fate Coach Angela Hare to explore the mother wound—how it begins, how it shows up, and how we can heal it. Angela shares her personal journey, including how her own mother wound began to show up in her parenting, and the steps she took to transform her relationship with herself and her daughter. Together, we unpack the patterns that no longer serve us and explore practical ways to reclaim your power, break generational cycles, and create healthier relationships with yourself and others.

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