S2 Episode 022, Part 2: Shame, Racism and mission experiences

Topics Covered:

1. **Growing Up in the Church**:

- Tara's adoption from Lake Charles and moving to South Jordan, Utah.

- Her experiences being raised in a predominantly white family with both biological and adopted siblings.

2. **Childhood and Church**:

- Reflections on a joyful and active childhood.

- Anecdotes about neighborhood games and childhood memories.

3. **Vulnerability and Safety**:

- Discussing feelings of safety and support within her family and church community.

4. **Adolescence and Pushing Boundaries**:

- Exploring teenage years and the challenges of navigating personal identity.

5. **Different Perspectives on the Ward**:

- Contrasting experiences and views within the church community.

6. **Fraternity Parties and Scripture Study**:

- Balancing social life with religious obligations during young adulthood.

7. **Different Family Dynamics**:

- Insights into the varied family structures and relationships.

8. **Conflicting Values**:

- Managing tensions between personal beliefs and church teachings.

9. **Navigating Peer Pressure**:

- Strategies for handling peer influence and maintaining personal integrity.

10. **Lack of Education and Understanding**:

- Addressing gaps in education, particularly around sensitive topics.

11. **Shame and Rejection**:

- Dealing with feelings of shame and the impact of rejection from peers and community.

12. **Seeking Connection in Unhealthy Ways**:

- How a lack of understanding and support can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms.

13. **Repression and Stifling of Sexuality**:

- Discussing the effects of inadequate sex education and the repression of natural sexual development.

14. **Exploring Sexuality and Coping Mechanisms**:

- Personal stories of sexual awakening and the challenges of reconciling these with religious teachings.

15. **Changing Narratives and Portrayals of Sexuality**:

- How narratives around sexuality and gender have evolved within the church and society.

16. **Female Empowerment and Representation**:

- Celebrating stories of female empowerment and the importance of representation.

17. **Experiencing Shame and Repentance**:

- Comparing experiences of confession and repentance in different religious contexts.

18. **Mission Experience in Georgia**:

- Sharing insights and challenges faced during her missionary work, including dealing with racism.

19. **Institutionalized Racism in Mormonism**:

- Addressing systemic racism and ignorance within the church and broader community.

Join us for a deep and heartfelt conversation with Tara Herbert as we explore her journey through adoption, childhood, adolescence, and her evolving relationship with faith and identity.