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Episode 104: Boundaries- Finding, Setting, and Handling Negative Responses


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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are covering boundaries! Boundaries are so important both in the kink realm and in the rest of the world. In this episode, we’ll talk about what a boundary is and is not, what types of boundaries you can consider, and how to find and set your own personal boundaries. We’ll also discuss what kinds of negative responses you might encounter when setting boundaries and one way of how we might handle them in our own lives. 

Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information within):

  • https://fetlife.com/users/3078725/posts/8788679?sp=66

  • Building BDSM Scenes - Luna Matatas

  • https://www.ropeconnections.com/boundaries-in-kinky-relationships/

  • https://psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2020/04/7-types-of-boundaries-you-may-need#3)-Emotional-or-Mental-Boundaries

  • https://psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2019/06/5-tips-for-setting-boundaries-without-feeling-guilty#5-tips-to-help-you-set-healthy-boundaries

  • https://www.tiktok.com/@moxierosedances/video/7283722604655938846?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7286603578277070367

  • https://www.tiktok.com/@solfirecoaching/video/7281345336436722949

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