Turned On With Sue And John

Porn. We know it's theater and yet... We seem to forget that it is. This week remind you why sex is, in fact, better than porn.

Today, Sue and John will give you some tips so that you can make sex as good as, or even better that what you're seeing online.

Beginning with recognizing that porn movies are not instruction manuals.

Sue will share what the research on porn actually revealed. How can you find the fantasy within the fantasy? Sue asks John to weigh in on this from his experience in the kink community and he shares his approach and thought processes before playing as a Dom and before playing as a submissive.

And we offer some insight on what you can do to make the real-life version better.

Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week.., The thigh tease. Holy shit! And for our swinger friends... Can jealousy actually be part of the turn-on?

Let's find out! It's time to get turned on with Sue And John!

Website: www.turnedonpodcast.com

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Fetlife links:

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Sue: MistressInCharge

John: Megahurts

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Today you get to find out exactly what it is that her clitoris wishes you knew... And by the end of this episode you WILL know!

Including:

• The clitoris: what science is finally discovering—and what to do with that information.
• How do you turn her on before touching her clitoris?
• How should you touch her—and what about oral sex?
• How do you help her orgasm without chasing it away?
• Does she want less sex—or better sex?
• How do you become the lover she can actually guide?

SUE’S SASSY SEX SECRET: Three ways to bring the clitoris into intercourse.

SO YOU’RE A SWINGER: The awkward morning-after review.’

And... We have two AMAZING questions from listeners this week that are all about this topic. One from a husband wondering how to get her to open up about fantasies, because he really wants to please her... And another from someone in a new relationship looking for ways to help her husband become more comfortable exploring so they can both experience incredible sex together!

We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com

Questions for Sue: [email protected]

John's email: [email protected]

Fetlife:

Turned On = @ TurnedOnPodcast

John = @ Megahurts

Sue = @ Mistress In Charge

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What happens when one partner keeps reaching, the other keeps retreating, and both end up feeling rejected?

And... How do you talk about it? Well today, we do talk about it. Everything from the loneliest six inches in a relationship to when "not tonight" starts to mean "not you."

Sue helps you navigate the differences between what different people need to get in the mood. For some it's spontaneous desire, but for others, desire is more responsive.

Have you ever felt like every touch is a demand? We talk about it. And we dive into the real reasons WHY desire disappears. We also offer some tips on breaking that rejection "pressure loop."

This week, Sue's Sassy Sex Secret is an incredible plan that she calls "the 10 minute maybe."

And for our swingers, we get into how being desired in the lifestyle, while hot, it doesn't fix what's happening at home.

Plus - don't miss Sue's heart to heart conversation with Charla Hathaway - a self proclaimed "whore since 50" who now, at the age of 80 is receiving rave reviews for her stage show "Naked At My Age." https://charlahathaway.com

We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com

Sue's Newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter

Questions For Sue: [email protected]

John: [email protected]

And on Fetlife:

@ TurnedOnPodcast

@ MistressInCharge

@ Megahurts

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25 minutes and 51 seconds.

That is the most lied about number in sex. Today, Sex With Sue (Sue McGarvie) and John explain why as we discuss how long sex usually lasts, and how long is SHOULD actually last.

We'll address the question you've asked yourself in bed but never said out loud... "Is my sex life normal?" And we'll give you the most honest answer plus offer some tips that should help to fix it!

Are you normal if you haven't had sex in a long time?

Are you normal if you compare the amount of sex you're having with the amount of sex others are having?

Is there something wrong with your body that's making you not crave it as much?

You've asked. And we'll answer you.

Plus - Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week - remote control toys! OMG the fun!!!! It's the perfect seduction date and it can really heat things up!

Sue also lets you in on 5 things that you can change today that will help you feel more than normal.

And, on our swinger segment this week - Just how normal IS swinging anyway? (More normal than you probably think.)

Your questions for Sue: [email protected]

Sue's Newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter

Our webite: www.turnedonpodcast.com

Fetlife links:

@ TurnedOnPodcast

@ MistressInCharge

@ Megahurts

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It's an entire show devoted to the inability to achieve orgasm.

Sex With Sue is North America's leading expert on human sexuality and today she and John discuss this issue, which is more common that most probably realize.

It not only affects individuals, but can impact your partner as well. We'll explore why sometimes you're able to cum when you're by yourself, but can't always get there when you're with somebody else.

Sue has some tricks up her sleeve to help with that too! This week's "Sassy Sex Secret" is all about the "frenulum switch!" We think you'll REALLY like this!

For some people, orgasm actually hurt. We'll examine the reasons why and go over some options that might help to take that pain away so you can enjoy them again.

For our swinger friends (hi!) - most probably imagine that in this community, it's orgasms everywhere all the time with everyone. Except, it's not. And, you don't have to make finish into a report card either.

Finally... Some of the best, if you'll pardon the pun, fucking orgasm tricks!

Cum see us online at www.turnedonpodcast.com

Questions for Sue: [email protected]

Subscribe to Sue's newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter

Turned On, on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast

Sue on Fetlife: MistressInCharge

John on Fetlife: Megahurts

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What do you do when you have a hard time getting hard? Or staying hard?

Today, we talk about it.

Including new treatments, and how commonplace erection medications are on porn sets, and at swinger clubs. In this week's swinger segment we'll get into why some men can't get hard even in that environment, and, as a bonus, we have a conversation about the couple's crush.

Sue and John will offer insight into why porn can impact your dick, and why your boss may be more to blame for not being able to get it up than your partner is.

What weakens erections and what men can do to make them harder and more reliable, and why playing with your partner's flaccid penis can be a LOT of fun! For both of you!

Questions for Sue: [email protected]

Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com

Fetlfe links: @ TurnedOnPodcast @MistressInCharge @Megahurts

Sue on TikTok: @s3xwithsue.swingdateguru

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Hey it's Sue and John - your guides today on how to better your odds of ending up in bed with someone you are attracted to!

A 40 minute conversation that covers that space between flirting and spending the night together.

We'll reveal where most people either freeze, fumble or accidentally kill the mood. And we offer some tips on how to avoid those pitfalls, and how to lean into your awkwardness as a super power!

Think about what song you'd strip to for someone you're trying to seduce, because Sue will teach you and incredible three minute strip tease!

You know those people who seem to have game every day and every night? What if YOU knew how to do that? After this conversation, you'll have some things to try!

Oh, and guys... Bridgerton. There aren't many places you can go to get better lessons on seduction that Bridgerton. You have your homework!

For our swinger friends (hi!), why swingers may be more sexually confident. Swinging isn't always a guaranteed romp. Swingers have learned to deal with rejection, but they also have learned how communication, articulating desires, flirting and confidence can lead to incredible connections!

Sue has an entire list of seduction secrets she'll share with you on this episode, and we walk you through how to handle it when things go sideways and sex doesn't happen.

We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com - including links to our Kinky Confessions, how to subscribe to Sue's newsletter, even products Sue recommends on our new Amazon store!

On Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast

Sue on Fetlife: @ MistressInCharge

John on Fetlife @ Megahurts

Questions for Sue: [email protected]

Questions for John: [email protected]

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Today we bring you inside a BDSM dungeon! It's an enormous space, in a very small community, in small town New Brunswick Canada!

We'll introduce you to Mistress Aaliyah and Her husband Chuck, who is also the dungeon master.

In just a few short years they turned their lifestyle into a space that attracts people from across Canada, the USA and around the world.

From BDSM sessions to swinger events and incredible adult lifestyle parties, Mistress and Chuck will introduce you to this converted warehouse that started as the location for their custom auto shop.

If you've ever wondered if you could work as a Pro Domme, Mistress will tell you some of the things you need to know about that line of work. From what you need to get started to what skill sets you need to have. This is an eye opener and a very fun conversation!

See the Warehouse for yourself online at www.thewarehousenb.ca

Plus... Sue has a conversation with one of our listeners, Copper Delight, who took us up on our invitation to have you, the listener, help answer some of the questions other listeners have. Today, she and Sue go through several questions we received recently about the Swinger lifestyle - it's fun to get a new perspective!

Find us online at www.turnedonpodcast.com

And on Fetlfe: @ TurnedOnPodcast

John on Fetlife @ Megahurts

Sue on Fetlife @ MistressInCharge

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Today... Meet a gigolo! Sue speaks to an Australian man who makes a living catering to the sexual needs and desires of women.

It's a very usual occupation, and we'll explore who the woman are that use his service.

This week we also guide you through what to expect if and when you visit a sex worker for the first time. It can be overwhelming, but we hope the right information helps you enjoy your experience a lot more.

On our So You're A Swinger segment this week, we look at paid intimacy vs the lifestyle.

We also hear from a listener who wants to gain experience with women but doesn't quite know where to begin. He also doesn't want to be arrested.

And... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week is all about electro stimulation! (Hint: One of us REALLY loves it!)

And... It's our first ever installment of our weekly "soap opera" As The World Turns On...

Your questions for Sue: [email protected]

Our Website: www.turnedonpodcast.com

Us on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast

John on Fetlife @ Megahurts

Sue on Fetlife @ MistressInCharge

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Welcome to the 200th episode of Turned On With Sue And John!

Our friendship began when we both worked at the same radio station in 1992. John was a music DJ and Sue hosted a nationally syndicated, call in show about all things sex, including countless phone calls from people with questions that they were too shy to ask anyone else.

Today, we discuss the sex questions everyone is REALLY asking in 2026 - including the differences between sex then and now, the sex advice that people get that is, to be blunt, bullshit and so much more.

We address questions from our friends in the swinger community as they continue to explore, we address porn and toys, erectile dysfunction, and sex as you get older.

This entire hour is devoted to the questions we get from you every week.

And that has been, is, and always will be Sue's goal; to answer your questions, provide you with answers based on research and experience, and to make you know, without a shadow of a doubt, that you are not alone in your likes, your wants, your desires.

Thanks for being with us for 200+ conversations! Here's to 200 more!

Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com

Sue's Newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter

Us on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast

John on Fetlife (including his latest latex pics from this weekend) @ Megahurts

Sue on Fetlife @ MistressInCharge

Sue's email: [email protected]

John's email: [email protected]

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