Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery.

The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

Jason reflects on the transformative friendship with a woman he calls Lotus, sharing lessons about emotional space, setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating the complexities of the non-monogamous lifestyle.

This episode blends personal confession, spiritual insight, and practical advice on asking for help, honoring feelings, and choosing where to invest your time and energy.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Wherever you are, this episode breaks down why your physical spot at lifestyle events matters and gives blunt, practical advice for meeting people: accept harsh truths (no one’s watching you), become memorable, use the Rule of Five, read groups, and—most importantly—change your spot to put yourself in the mix. Short, direct, and aimed at helping you feel less anxious and more effective in social settings.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

Jason recounts his weekend at the Pulsify takeover and shares the origin story of how he and his wife found the lifestyle, not for sex, but to build friendships and a social tribe after years of loneliness. He reflects on the emotional moment at the beach that started it all, the awkward early experiences, and lessons learned about communication and safety.

This episode mixes candid vulnerability with humor, advice on navigating swinger culture (including testing and boundaries), and a reminder that the lifestyle can be a meaningful way to find community and connection.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

Host Jason reflects on late-night memories from the lifestyle, celebrating quiet, mundane moments—coffee, slow dances, shared jokes—that often mean more than the wild sexual adventures.

Through personal stories, he explores how attention, friendship, and simple human connection deepen relationships in ethical non-monogamy and invites listeners to make new memories together.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

Jason celebrates his birthday by sharing playful, practical gift ideas for friends in the lifestyle, from discreet sex toys, robes, and squirt blankets to themed pineapple keepsakes and thoughtful non-sex gifts. He also stresses STI testing with a recommendation for discreet at-home kits and offers do's and don'ts for giving without pressure or expectations.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

In this raw, unfiltered episode, Jason shares a personal breakdown and recovery from mental health struggles within the lifestyle community.

He explores themes of anxiety, disordered attachment, therapy, the challenges unique to the lifestyle, and the importance of honest communication and support.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

(Reupload) Host Jason explores what happens when the swinger/lifestyle scene stops being fun — why couples consider breaks or endings, how to have honest conversations, and the toll of burnout, drama, and mental health.

He shares practical steps for stepping back or leaving gracefully, what life can look like afterward, and reassurance that questioning or changing your participation is normal and okay.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com

Host Jason shares laughable and cringe-worthy stories of bad dates from the lifestyle scene, from awkward dinner conversations and red flags to dealing with flaky or arrogant couples. He offers practical tips on what to watch for, how to exit a bad date, and why these misadventures can become campfire stories.

My links:

www.thatotherlifestyle.com

https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle

Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course

Risque Lifestyle Parties

SDC.com

STDHero.com

Hellowisp.com