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Chad and Jo are taking a little break to recharge. And, we encourage you to do the same.

Have a safe and happy holiday season, and we'll see you sometime in the 2026.

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Changing and evolving is an important part of life, and an important part of the lifestyle. The times change, and if you aren't willing to change with them, you're going to get left behind.

Chad and Jo talk about what makes it hard, and what makes it important to them.

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Jill and Jamie from Omaha, Nebraska are on The Confident Swinger!

We talk about how the LS has changed, and about the challenges, and about different dynamics.

Be sure to listen to this fun conversation!

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Chad is back! And we're talking about what makes him successful, and a good lover, in the Lifestyle.

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Today is a bad day. Jo is in the middle of an emotion storm and feeling super broken. This episode is real, raw emotion. Listen at your own risk.

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Today, Jo talks about assertive women in the LS. 

Jo talks about some of the reasons why guys like an assertive woman, but even more importantly, Jo talks about why SHE loves to be assertive herself.

And, if you're looking to be more assertive, she gives some tips to help.

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Chad is in the hot seat! Today, Jo interviews Chad; they talk about their LS journey, how it has changed over the years, and how Chad has grown and changed over the years.

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Confidence can be a fickle bitch... sometimes you are riding high, and sometimes you bottom out. Chad and Jo talk about the ins and outs of confidence.

Reach out to Jo on FB at Facebook or email her at [email protected]

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Feeling unwanted is something that probably everyone has felt at some point. It's not a popular feeling, but it's common enough, even in the LS.

Jo shares her latest experience in feeling unwanted, and how she managed it.

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We are often our own worst enemy, and sometimes, that means that we put a lot of pressure on ourselves. Sometimes, that means we put TOO much pressure on ourselves. And that takes all the fun out of life, and out of the LS.

Today, Chad and Jo talk about putting too much pressure on yourself and offer some tips and advice for managing that.

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