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 A lot of people struggle with the concept of reconciling the LS with their religious or spiritual beliefs. So today, Jo shares her thoughts about religion in the LS.

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In this episode, Jo talks about how to reject someone with kindness. We all know that rejection IS a part of the LS, and a lot of people struggle with that. They struggle with rejecting others, and also with being rejected themselves. The key to rejecting with kindness is to be clear and concise, and to do it with the intention of freeing them to find a better fit.

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Last week, we talked about uncut penes. Everybody has preferences and turn offs, that's totally normal. And, sometimes people cross over into body shaming territory. That's what we're talking about today.

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There was a post recently about someone being turned off by uncircumcised penises (penes!), and since a friend had literally JUST talked to me about the topic a day before, I thought it was a sign that I should do an episode about it.

So today, I talk about the reasons people may avoid, or seek out, an uncut penis. And I share my own personal preferences. 

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In this episode, Chad goes solo for the first time, and shares his jealousy struggles. He shares what helped him get through it, and shares some tips for others.

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Today, Jo talks about being successful in the LS. And really, your definition of success is really going to depend on your why, on your reason for being in the LS, and on what you want to get out of it.

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Jo is publishing an episode she had previously published only on Patreon. In it, she goes through a Making the First Move workshop she had been working on.

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Today, Jo talks about her struggles with dealing with Chad's negative emotions, and how her trying to "fix" it, trying to "manage" it, actually made things way worse.
You can be loving and supportive AND let your partner deal with their own negative, uncomfortable emotions. In fact, they aren't going to be able to move past them if they aren't allowed the freedom of dealing with their own emotions.

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Jo is joined today by her best friend Steph. They went to Westport, Washington to check out the Westport Hotel Takeover hosted by Club Sapphire out of Seattle. We wanted to share our thoughts and experiences while we were there. Enjoy!

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Jo is joined by Chad this week (yay!), and they talk about the times when you OVER communicate. Or you talk things to death, instead of actually taking action and moving forward. Communication is important, or course. And sometimes, there comes a time when talking more isn't effective, and it isn't moving you forward. There are times you get stuck in a holding pattern because of fear. Moral of the story... don't let the fear stop you.

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Connect with Jo. Email her at [email protected], or connect with her on Facebook Jo Leavitt | Facebook

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