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Jo is joined by Chad this week (yay!), and they talk about the times when you OVER communicate. Or you talk things to death, instead of actually taking action and moving forward. Communication is important, or course. And sometimes, there comes a time when talking more isn't effective, and it isn't moving you forward. There are times you get stuck in a holding pattern because of fear. Moral of the story... don't let the fear stop you.

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Chad and Jo recently visited Paradise Lakes, a nudist/lifestyle resort in Florida, and they share their experiences with you.

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You see a lot of cockiness in the LS... people bragging about their sexual skills or prowess. Today, Jo talks about some possible reasons why that happens, and how it's actually NOT about confidence at all.

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Chad recently sort of hosted an impromptu party at our friend's house while they were out of town, and apparently, it was a great time! Today, we talk about why, and we talk about planning things versus letting them just play out.

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Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
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Disappointment is bound to happen, even in the LS. It happens when things don't work out the way you want them to, and you're left dealing with those emotions. In today's episode, Jo talks about disappointment, some causes and situations, and then she talks about tips for managing disappointment, and some ways to avoid it in the future.

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New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

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Last week, Jo talked about people finding themselves in "natural" D/s dynamics. Staying on the D/s thought train, this week, Jo talks about how thoughts and emotions are ALSO in a D/s dynamic. Thoughts are the Dom (usually); they are in control, or they think they are, and emotions are the sub, the more submissive ones that do as they are told. Or, that's how we WANT to believe. But just like in any kind of D/s dynamic, it's REALLY the sub that has control, and in our bitchy little brains, it's REALLY the emotions that have control.

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In this episode, Jo talks about basic Dom/sub relationship dynamics, and how they can and often do show up in everyday vanilla relationships. She talks about the benefits that could come from embracing a more structured D/s dynamic.

The video referenced in this episode:
What Submissives REALLY Want from their Dominant (youtube.com)

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If you are already an overthinker, the LS can kick your bitchy little brain into overdrive. In today's episode, Jo talks about overthinking and gives some tips to help you manage it.

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Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

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Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757

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This is a short mini episode about self-love, and the things that get lost, the things that hide and keep you from the happiness and healing you are seeking.

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Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

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Today, Jo interviews Lisa, who has a different Lifestyle why. Lisa has some medical issues that affect her sexually, so she and her husband use the lifestyle to not just enhance their relationship, but to ensure that sexual needs are met.

There is no one right way, or one right reason. This episode highlights the many dynamics that are possible, and is a reminder that sometimes, that guy that plays alone really IS for real. 

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Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

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Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757

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The Confident Swinger

Connect with Jo. Email her at [email protected], or connect with her on Facebook Jo Leavitt | Facebook

Check out her website to learn more about Jo and her coaching services:
Home | The Confident Swinger

And become a subscriber to support the show and get awesome perks!
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