The Confident Swinger Podcast

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Sometimes, it can feel like you are holding your partner back in the LS. Like, maybe, they would have more fun or have more opportunities if you weren't there. In today's episode, Chad and Jo talk about holding your partner back.

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In today's episode, Jo gets a little vulnerable and talks about her healing journey through the lifestyle. And she talks about her annual girl's trip, and how healing that is for her, too. 

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Do you find yourself playing with the same people? If so, have you ever wondered why?

Is it because you have good chemistry with them?

Is it because you are comfortable with them, and that makes it easy?

Or is it somewhere in between? 

Today, Jo and Chad talk about chemistry and comfortability in repeat play partners. And, if you keep going back to the same play partner, are you stopping them from making new connections with other people? Let's talk about it.

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It can be awkward to initiate the play in a group setting. It seems like everyone wants it to happen, but nobody makes the first move. 

Jo and Chad talk about what makes it awkward or hard, and offers some ideas and suggestions for getting things started.

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In this episode, Chad and Jo talk about navigating the LS as overweight people.

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In today's episode, Chad and Jo talk about talking to the partner of someone you are interested in playing with. They talk about whether or not it is important or expected, what you should and maybe should not say, and when. They talk about the importance of respect.4

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Everyone gets into a slump sometimes and feels less than confident. Today, Jo talks about ways to pull yourself out of the slump.

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In today's episode, Jo talks about being too picky. And she talks about being in your head and overthinking things. 

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Playtionships, or the relationship between play partners, often end. Sometimes they end organically, and sometimes one person or one couple ends it. It's easy to say that it's ok to end things, but the reality is that sometimes it's challenging. It can be hard for everyone involved.

Today, Chad and Jo talk about that.

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Break-ups are a part of life, and when it happens in the LS it's even harder for everyone to navigate.

Today, Chad and Jo talk about navigating through the break-ups, whether you are on the inside or outside.

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Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov
New New music (season 3): Level by Pryces for intro, and Take the Reins by Hey Pluto for outro