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We hit 100,000 downloads! And as a special thank you to all of our listeners, Chad and Jo recorded this special bonus episode. Chad puts Jo in the hot seat and gets her thoughts on the journey of the first 100,000 downloads of The Confident Swinger Podcast.

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In this episode, Chad and Jo talk about which person initiates in a play situation. He often leaves it up to Jo, so he knows that she is comfortable and wants to play. And while that is a good strategy, it often puts the pressure on her.

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Last time, or last time we were together, we talked about what the LS means to us each, individually. In today's episode, Jo and Chad talk about what the LS has brought to their relationship. Spoiler alert, it's brought a lot, good and bad. Extra spoiler alert, even the bad has brought good.

Extra spoiler alert, I shouldn't be trusted to write the show notes high...

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Ideally, the Lifestyle is meant to enhance your life and your relationship. But there are times when that doesn't happen... there are times when it breaks people down and tears them apart.

The key is to know when to participate, and when to take a step back and NOT play. Jo talks about some things to look for, some warning signs, so you know when it's time to take a break and focus on your relationship.

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In today's episode, Jo and Chad each share 5 ways that the LS has changed or improved their lives. 

Couples are made up of individuals, and it's important to understand your own personal why, as well as your why as a couple.

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Jo and Chad just got back from a vanilla cruise, and they talk about their experiences with vanilla travel versus lifestyle travel.

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Jo and Chad are headed on vacation, but we wanted to give you a quickie episode with some of our favorite pieces of advice.

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Today, Chad and Jo talk about sex. Or, more precisely, they talk about PEOPLE talking about sex.

People are going to talk, it's human nature. They are going to talk about their experiences, good or bad. And in the LS, that often includes sexual experiences, which can cause some unintentional problems.

Chad and Jo warn against the natural desire to kiss and tell, and against the desire to hear all the dirty details. Remember, there are real people, with real feelings, on the other side of that story.

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In today's episode, Jo talks about one of the things that a lot of people struggle with in the LS... flirting.

Flirting is important, especially in the LS. And it can really make or break your success. The most important thing about flirting is the way you feel about it, so don't put too much pressure on yourself. There is no right or wrong way to flirt, there is just you, being you.

Jo gives some ideas and tips to get you more comfortable with flirting, and to hopefully get you out of your head.

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Chad and Jo talk about sex in the LS... the good and the bad. They talk about what makes sex so good, and some of the things that make it challenging.

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