Unapologetic Swingers

What happens when creativity, connection, and desire collide?

Jay and Elle sit down with the creators of 9 Muses, the LA-based party experience, to get an inside look at the inspiration, vision, and people behind the events. How did it all begin? What makes these gatherings different? And what does it take to create an atmosphere where fantasy, self-expression, and connection come together?

From the vision behind the parties to the experiences that happen when the doors open, we're exploring the people, passion, and creativity behind 9 Muses.

Get ready for an intimate conversation about creating experiences, pushing boundaries, and bringing people together in the lifestyle.

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A solo vacation in Ireland, an unexpected experience, and a story that deserves a full unpacking!

Ariel returns from her Irish adventure with a story to tell, and The Tramp is ready to get into all of it. In this episode, the two unpack Ariel’s experience in real time, digging into what happened, how they both felt in the moment, and what it all means now that the Tramp has time to reflect. Expect candid reactions, unexpected revelations, plenty of questions, and the kind of honest conversation that happens when nothing is off the table.

Sometimes the best adventures are the ones you never saw coming—and the most interesting part is what happens when you finally talk about them.

Join Ariel and The Tramp as they relive the experience, one revelation at a time!

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What does it really take to keep the spark alive while exploring the lifestyle?

In this all-girls episode, Elle, Ariel, and Emma get real about relationships, desire, connection, and the challenges of keeping your primary relationship strong while swinging. From making time for each other to navigating jealousy, boundaries, communication, and changing desires, the girls share their perspectives and personal experiences on what it takes to keep the fire burning.

Because the lifestyle can add excitement to a relationship—but keeping the relationship itself fed, connected, and desired is where the real work happens.

It’s honest, playful, and full of girl talk about love, lust, relationships, and the lifestyle.

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Four people, four journeys, and a lifestyle that keeps evolving. In this episode, Ariel, The Tramp, Jay, and Elle talk openly about how their experiences in swinging have changed them—individually, as couples, and in the way they approach connection, desire, boundaries, and exploration. From where they started to where they are now, we explore how the lifestyle continues to challenge expectations, open new doors, and reveal possibilities none of us anticipated. 

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Join cohosts Jay and Elle as they check in from their sexy California adventure! How is the trip going? What unexpected twists, new experiences, and unforgettable moments have come their way? We get the inside scoop as Jay and Elle share the highs, surprises, and stories from their latest adventure on the West Coast.

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Were key parties really the foundation of the swinger lifestyle, or has Hollywood been telling the story all wrong? Join Ariel and The Tramp as they dive into the vintage tropes, myths, and stereotypes that have shaped public perception of swinging for decades. From shag carpets and key bowls to today's emphasis on communication, consent, and intentional connection, this episode explores how the lifestyle has evolved—and why the old clichés don't tell the whole story. Whether you're lifestyle-curious or a seasoned swinger, this is a fun, nostalgic look at where we've been and how far we've come.

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Ariel and the Tramp have an amazing experience with some new and very sexy friends Zach and Chelsea. Marking a new chapter in our journey.

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Ariel and the Tramp talk about re calibration in our rules and boundaries and how sometimes old habits die hard

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Ariel and the Tramp talk about our unique dynamics and the new experiences we've come across within the lifestyle so far.  

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Ariel and the Tramp talk about communication vs transparency and why it quickly becomes critical at all levels in an ethically monogamous relationship.  

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