That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

By Jayson LeeSociety & Culture Education Self-Improvement Leisure Relationships

That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast episodes

January 29 The Witching Hour
Host Jason explores the "witching hour": that late-night moment at lifestyle parties, cruises, and events when the vibe shifts and people look for last-chance encounters. He shares stories, types of people you’ll meet, and the emotional realities of endings, rejection, and desire.
Jason gives practical advice: discuss boundaries with your partner before the event, be clear about intentions, practice consent and testing, and know when to be bold or walk away. The episode is candid, adult, and focused on real-world lifestyle etiquette.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
31 min
January 15 Cucumber
A fictional episode in which a newbie couple explores the lifestyle with a dinner date that escalates into boundary-crossing and confusion; highlights the importance of consent, communication, and respecting limits.
My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
32 min
January 08 Mezzanine
Host Jason uses the hotel mezzanine as a metaphor to explore social tiers in the ethical non‑monogamy community from the high‑visibility "shiny people" and secret side rooms to the lobby of newbies and burnouts. He reflects on inclusion, burnout, and how popularity often masks real connection.
The episode validates different ways to engage, warns against chasing status, and encourages listeners to find their own tribe and experience the lifestyle on their own terms.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
31 min
December 24, 2025 Come In, Come In: A Lifestyle Christmas Carol
Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. Jason connects Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol (via the Muppet version) to the lifestyle world, using the ghosts of past, present, and future as metaphors for memories, party energy, and long-term consequences. He shares personal holiday stories about raves, parties, shame, joy, boundaries, and community, urging listeners to come in, connect, and care for each other as the year turns.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
32 min
December 18, 2025 Here Be Dragons
Jason uses a map-and-sea metaphor to unpack sexual dynamics in the lifestyle: desire, power, connection, and risk. He stresses clear communication, consent, and rejecting shame while exploring examples like FFM vs FMF, full swap nuances, and bisexuality.
Practical takeaways include naming preferences, setting boundaries with partners, avoiding escalatory pressure, and choosing whether to keep exploring or anchor in a dynamic that fits you.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
32 min
December 11, 2025 How to host a Meetup
Jason walks through everything you need to know to plan and host a lifestyle meetup, from choosing a venue and talking to managers to promotion, vetting, and managing the crowd.
He covers public vs. private events, budgeting and ticketing, safety and discretion, dealing with problem attendees, and tips for welcoming newbies and building lasting events.
This episode is a practical, honest, and inclusive how‑to for anyone who wants to start a meetup or make their next event better.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
51 min
December 04, 2025 Let's talk to the Flirty Pineapples
Host Jason sits down with Bella, a retired sex therapist, and her husband Prescott to share their origin story in the lifestyle, how they worked through jealousy, and the tools that strengthened their relationship.
The episode covers practical advice for dating app profiles, privacy and validation tips, speed dates and travel strategies, and communication exercises like the “what if” game and jealousy workbooks.
Listeners will get candid, adult-focused conversations about consent, building trust, navigating emotions, and resources and courses from the guests to help newcomers and experienced lifestyle participants alike.
www.instagram.com/TheFlirtyPineapples/

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
1 hr 2 min
November 27, 2025 Back from the Horizon: Returning to the Lifestyle
Host Jason returns from a spontaneous hiatus and shares a personal, candid journey through the lifestyle, using elevators and a stolen sailboat as metaphors for transitions, uncertainty, and self-discovery.
The episode also serves as a primer on the lifestyle: foundational principles like consent, body positivity, and sexual freedom; practical advice on testing, communication, labels, and finding your tribe; and an invitation to explore the community on your own terms.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
37 min
October 23, 2025 White Hot
Jason shares a candid, adult story from the lifestyle scene as he watches his wife shine at a rave, reflects on love, compersion, and growth in their relationship, and connects with a new friend. Between vivid moments of desire, vulnerability, and devotion, he announces a brief podcast break to recharge and promises to return with fresh stories and energy.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
31 min
October 16, 2025 Lotus
Jason reflects on the transformative friendship with a woman he calls Lotus, sharing lessons about emotional space, setting boundaries, protecting your mental health, and navigating the complexities of the non-monogamous lifestyle.
This episode blends personal confession, spiritual insight, and practical advice on asking for help, honoring feelings, and choosing where to invest your time and energy.

My links:
www.thatotherlifestyle.com
https://benable.com/ThatOtherLifestyle
Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle Course
Risque Lifestyle Parties
SDC.com
STDHero.com
Hellowisp.com
48 min

About That Other Lifestyle - A Lifestyle Swinger Podcast

From the publisher's feed

Ready to ditch the vanilla life and explore something a little… spicier? Leave Vanilla Behind and listen to That Other Lifestyle, the unapologetically real swinger/lifestyle podcast where I skip the fluff and dive headfirst into the wild, weird, wonderful world of ethical non-monogamy. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the stories, I will help you navigate the Lifestyle from sexy etiquette and emotional intelligence to the awkward mishaps and unforgettable wins.

Expect unfiltered advice, real talk, and just enough humor to make your playdates blush. This is the show for people who don’t just talk about freedom, they live it.

www.thatotherlifestyle.com