Finding Your Village

Episode 13: How to Get Your Baby to Sleep Longer


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Today, I’m talking about baby sleep. My first sleep episode was focused on newborns, in this episode I am shifting my focus to talk about babies ages 3-9 months. My goal in this episode is to help you and your baby get more sleep!

What I'll cover:

  • Discuss sleep regression and sleep training
  • Introduce what a sleep consultant is and talk about my experience with one
  • How to hire a sleep consultant
  • Review my rules for sleep 
  • Recap resources 

Sleep regression  

  • Definition: From the Baby Sleep Site 
    • As baby’s brain matures, sleeping patterns change 
    • Cycling more often, like an adult
    • Baby's new sleep patterns produce more night waking and short naps 
    • Once she’s up, she will need  help falling back asleep
  • If your child has established a sleeping crutch like nursing or rocking, you are going to have to break them of the habit and sleep train them

Sleep training

  • What it is: training your baby to fall asleep on their own and/or go back to sleep on their own
  • Sleep Training Methods: this article has a great breakdown of the various sleep training methodologies, categorized by “gentleness” 
  • Choosing An Approach

My Experience

  • Wasn't interested in Cry It Out at all
  • Read several books, but it seemed confusing
  • So, I hired sleep consultant 
    • Thankfully with my son, I didnt have to worry about sleep training...because with him I did it right from the start

What is a Sleep Consultant? 

  • Person to "hold your hand" while you sleep train your child
  • Work with you virtually (usually) to figure out sleep plan that is right for your family
  • They walk you through as you execute the plan
    • Daily text messages/emails
    • Phone calls

Cost

  • $200-$300 for custom sleep play + virtual support for 2 weeks
    • Same price as one night at a hotel!
    • It is worth it! 
  • Budget friendly options: 
    • Less "hand holding"
    • Taking Cara Babies Classes

My recommendation for dealing with an infant who is having sleep issues (short naps, waking up frequently at night) is: 

  • Follow my Rules for Sleep for a couple weeks
  • If things are not improving, consider hiring a sleep consultant
  • (Or just go ahead and hire a sleep consultant right away!)

Rules for sleep

  1. Know the appropriate awake interval for your baby’s age. 
  2. Don't let them take a nap longer than 3 hours during the day
  3. Create a comfortable sleep environment
  4. Create a consistent bedtime/naptime routine and do it every time
  5. Avoid creating sleep crutches. Don’t nurse or rock your baby to sleep (try not to, its hard when they are so little)

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