In this powerful episode, Deana and Lizzie dive deep into the "marriage covenant" which can be a beautiful, sacred promise between two people and God.  But when is it NOT a covenant that God has ordained?  Join us as we discuss the complex realities of marriage, shedding light on the often-misunderstood concept of the marriage covenant—especially in the context of emotional and spiritual abuse. They explore how faith can both help and hinder healing, why some stay in toxic relationships, and how to recognize the true signs of love vs. control.

If you’ve ever felt trapped by religious or cultural expectations, or questioned whether staying in a painful marriage is the right thing, this episode offers compassionate insight, real talk, and hope for anyone navigating this difficult path.

Takeaways

• The marriage covenant is often misunderstood.
• Emotional abuse can occur even in seemingly good relationships.
• Staying in an abusive relationship can hinder personal growth.
• True love is demonstrated through consistent kindness and support.
• Many people feel trapped by the idea of the marriage covenant.
• Spiritual advice can sometimes perpetuate unhealthy situations.
• Recognizing the signs of abuse is crucial for healing.
• It's important to seek support from trusted individuals.
• Writing down experiences can provide clarity and perspective.
• Leaving an abusive relationship can lead to a more peaceful life.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to a Heavy Topic

00:38
Understanding the Marriage Covenant

05:06
The Nature of True Covenant Relationships

11:04
Why People Stay in Abusive Relationships

16:49
The Role of Spirituality in Marriage

22:23
Recognizing Abuse and Seeking Help

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