Cancer impacts the entire family of a patient, including the children. To help parents help their children through these difficult time periods, the James has created a team of certified child life specialists (CCLS).

“We help parents navigate these situations and conversations,” said Sami Rundo, CCLS. The help comes in many forms, Rundo explained. “It starts with understanding the medical situation [of the patient] … And then we prepare the family to navigate discussions and conversations. What does that conversation look like? And do they want our child life services to have these discussions with their children or provide the resources they can use in these conversations.” Rundo explained how these discussions can trigger emotions and that parents can “embrace the fact there will probably be some tears and the need for breaks and walks.” She also detailed why it can be important to explain the medical procedures that will take place, such as surgery and radiation treatments, and how their parent’s treatment could impact a child’s daily routine. The team has a doll they utilize to visually show children different medical procedures and what a port that delivers chemotherapy looks like.

“We also talk about the ways in which the children can be helpers, caregivers,” Rundo said. “And what’s appropriate for that child. Can I get you a blanket if you’re cold, but maybe not taking care of their other siblings.” The James certified child life specialists can let parents know about cancer-themed children’s book they might want to utilize in their discussion with their children, and “we can create customized books for a family,” Rundo said.

The James certified child life services team is relatively new and growing. “Over time [with a family] we develop trust and an openness of communications,” Rundo said. “I’ve learned so much about families and to see them grow and become stronger during these difficult times is really profound.”