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Ever stood in a courtroom or boardroom and thought, "They're all going to realize I have no idea what I'm doing"? That familiar feeling of being an imposter isn't a sign of failure—it's a sign of growth.

In this deeply personal episode, I share a perspective-shifting definition of imposter syndrome that changed everything for me: "Imposter syndrome is what happens when we meet the edge of our comfort zone." This simple reframing helps us understand that self-doubt isn't evidence we're unqualified; it's evidence we're stretching ourselves into new territory.

As attorneys, we face unique challenges that amplify imposter syndrome. Without clear milestones marking our progression from associate to partner, we're constantly learning on the fly and taking on increasingly complex responsibilities. 

I offer practical strategies for managing these feelings when they arise. By questioning our negative thoughts, practicing self-compassion, and reframing our internal narratives, we can transform "I can't believe they're letting me do this" into "I'm getting this opportunity because someone believes in me." The most successful attorneys aren't those who never doubt themselves—they're the ones who keep showing up despite their uncertainty.

Remember: growth is uncomfortable, self-doubt is normal, but you are not an imposter, and you are not alone. You belong exactly where you are, doing exactly what you're ready to do. Subscribe to The Grace Period for more honest conversations about finding balance and preserving your humanity in the high-stakes world of law.

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