Trigger Warning: this episode discusses domestic and sexual violence and abuse.

In this inspiring episode, Zen dives into a raw and empowering conversation with comedian, pole coach, and all-around badass Orchid, as she opens up about rebuilding life after loss, owning her identity, and redefining strength as a woman over 40.

We explore what it means to rise from a chapter you never asked for — to choose resilience, joy, and self-expression in a world that often underestimates women over 40. Through comedy and movement, Orchid continues to rewrite what confidence, beauty, and boldness can look like in midlife.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Orchids journey from profound grief to reclaiming joy

• Why embracing your feminine power is NOT anti-feminist

• The power of movement — especially pole — to heal and transform confidence

• How women over 40 are rewriting the conversation around strength, sexuality & aging

• The role of community in rebuilding identity

• Why it’s never too late to try something totally new

• How to step into your “stadium era” — believing your dreams deserve big stages

Prepare to feel seen, understood, and wildly empowered. You’re not behind… you’re right on time for your comeback.

Follow Orchid @orchidcameron

Start your journey today!

• Want to try pole? Join a class at your local studio or download the free GenX Pole Arts Starter Kit⁠ to begin exploring at home.

• Visit the Linktree for links for upcoming workshops, YouTube videos, and resources to support your pole journey.

Upcoming Workshops:

• November 8 – Santa Fe, NM

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