In this episode Kate sits down with a woman she calls Ally. Her guest didn't want to be identified by name or expose others who were involved in this story. This episode is about how she struggled to reconcile feminism and motherhood, personal freedom and security, as well as the "grass is always greener" myths surrounding romantic relationships and singledom.

Kate also discusses her own struggle with losing the freedom that comes with detachment and the pressures faced by unmarried women in their 20s and 30s and beyond. It is an episode that deals with the personal struggles we have inside and outside our relationships, and how to evolve personally when we choose to have commitments.  

Ally chose to remain an anonymous guest, but we have used some stock photos to promote the episode. Just a note so that no one is confused by these images...