In this powerful conversation, Dr. Mary sits down with fellow physical therapist and cancer survivor Shanel Arimilli to unpack how perfectionism, people-pleasing, and chronic stress patterns can silently sabotage your health. Shanel shares her personal journey—how a cancer diagnosis ultimately guided her transformation from a traditional PT to a holistic healer.

Together, they explore the intersection of quantum physics, neuroscience, human physiology, and spirituality, and how true healing goes far beyond just treating symptoms. If you’ve ever felt stuck, burnt out, or like your body is begging for help while you're trying to “do everything right,” this episode will speak to you.

00:00 Introduction to TMI Talk with Dr. Mary

00:15 Meet Shanel Arimilli: A Journey from Physical Therapy to Healing

02:14 Diving into Shanel's Cancer Journey and Healing

05:46 The Power of Emotions and Intuition in Medicine

07:42 Understanding Pain and Its Messages

11:59 Integrating Physical and Spiritual Healing

25:27 The Role of Patterns in Healing

34:31 Exploring Different Types of Journaling

34:46 Understanding and Connecting with Emotions

40:34 The Importance of Asking for Help

41:17 Healing Through Community and Self-Awareness

44:01 Personal Stories of Overcoming Cancer

52:06 The Power of Imagination and Self-Discovery

52:50 Challenging Societal Norms and Embracing Authenticity

55:36 Taking Baby Steps Towards Self-Improvement

56:38 Final Thoughts and Resources for Healing

You can learn more about Shenal here

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