We sit with our friend Brianna, aka Bahn, to unpack coming out in her early 30s, finding steady love with her wife Melissa, and building a marriage and a home with intention. Courage looks like everyday choices—from saying “my wife” at work to painting a cabinet the color that feels like you.

• Discussing Bahn's first conversations with friends and family about her sexuality, and the realization that she might be different than her friends growing up
• How her wife helped her gain confidence in her identity and their relationship 
• Talking about marriage as responsibility, ritual, and kindness in practice
• “Wear the damn suit” anthem as a lens for identity and comfort
• Beginner-friendly DIY projects that change a space fast and top tools to have at home

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