In this episode of The Midlife Mount, we take on a difficult but necessary conversation about recent misconduct allegations in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and the patterns that keep surfacing in the sport. Rather than focusing on headlines or individuals, we talk about power dynamics, silence, accountability, and what safety should actually look like on the mats—especially for women. Drawing on lived experience and midlife perspective, this episode explores how we can love jiu-jitsu while still expecting better from it.