It’s easy to feel like everyone else has it together while we’re quietly falling apart. The Psalms of lament (like Psalm 13 and Psalm 22) give us permission to stop pretending and bring our pain honestly to God. In this episode, pastors Kevin Wilson, Michael Carter, and Tony San Nicolas discuss how lament moves us from complaining about God to complaining to Him—and how that kind of honesty forms a faith that’s real, resilient in hard times, and bold to a watching world.

The Heart-Shaping series walks alongside Westover's Heart of Worship sermon series, March 1-22, 2026.