Essential Stepmom Podcast

Does my advice on stepfamily life conflict with what you're hearing from your counsellor or therapist? I'm not surprised, LOL! That's because they're not trained in the area of step-families and they still believe that all families follow the same kind of natural law. 

Family Constellation Therapy was created by Bert Hellinger. My favourite book on this topic is by Jakob Schneider - it seems to be out of print but the Kindle edition is available here:

Reach out to me for a link to watch my video on some specifics of how to start making a new family. You can reach me at [email protected] or just click on this link to watch:

I'd love to chat with you about my 1:1 coaching for dads. Email me at [email protected] or visit my calendar to book a call at bit.ly/CALLTRACY

Want to know more about exactly how to make those boundaries you wish you had? Here are my top 5 tools for making better boundaries with your ex, your kids, even your spouse.

I love hearing from you - let me know what you think about this, or just reach out to me any time at [email protected]

If you're a divorced dad wanting to rescue your relationship with your kids, or to learn how to parent in this upside-down family dynamic where the kids have way too much power, or to be ready to totally slay any attempt to reduce your custody or visitation, or to protect your personal finances from being shredded over the next 10-15 years, talk to me about my 6-month 1:1 coaching experience for dads. It's a significant investment, but your ROI will be absolutely spectacular!  Set up a complimentary chat at bit.ly/CALLTRACY

Everything comes down to boundaries. I'll break this apart and show you why yours aren't doing the job. 

Do you know a divorced dad who wants to protect his relationship with his kids and maximize his ability to raise them the way he wants? Maybe he'd also like to keep his finances from getting shredded over the long haul of a high conflict "co-parenting" environment?  Invite him to book a time on my calendar at bit.ly/CALLTRACY and we can talk about my 6-month comprehensive 1:1 coaching offer for Undeletable Dads!

You can contact Dr. Sonia via her webiste, http://renewedbeliefs.com

Her research paper about autism and stepfamilies can be accessed via Google Scholar or with this link:

You can reach me on my private email at [email protected].

If your husband/boyfriend/partner is looking for help to get his high-conflict custody or parenting situation under control, he might be interested in my premium 6-month coaching offer that includes 1:1 sessions, unlimited Voxer support and my signature tool for establishing himself as an engaged and competent parent before the courts. Set up a no-obligation call to learn more and see if we'd be a good fit to tackle this project together!  http://bit.ly/CALLTRACY

This is part two of my conversation with filmmaker Peter Maestrey about his journey through and past divorce. He shares how he dealt with other people telling him how to feel about his divorce and how he got on with creating the life he's always wanted.

Peter's podcast is called Divorce - The First Six Months and you can find it through his website, https://divorcethefirstsix.

You can reach me on my private email info@essentialstepmom or [email protected].

Coaching is available for stepmoms, and dads can access my exclusive 6-month parenting strategy program, Undeletable Dad.

Call me to learn more: bit.ly/CALLTRACY

Peter Maestrey is an award-winning filmmaker and producer. He's also the host of a podcast called Divorce - The First Six Months. You can find him at divorcethefirstsix.com

The Visible Man Discord is open to men and women who want to have spontaneous, respectful, private conversations about how to recover and move on from the really big shit. There's also a pretty good poker game and some fantasy football, I'm told! Go to bit.ly/visiblemandiscord

You can reach me any time on my personal and private email [email protected], or at [email protected].

I offer individual coaching for stepmoms, and a 6-month in-depth program for dads covering parenting strategy as well as custody planning and protection of financial resources. Learn more at undeletabledad.com

Bobbi Brooks Wilcox is the Founder of Blended Families United, a published author, is

registered as an Unlicensed Psychotherapist in the state of Colorado, a coach, and an ordained

minister. She offers online spiritual counseling and blended family coaching services, programs,

and resources to stepcouples to help them heal, transform, and strengthen their

marriage/remarriage and relationships so they will THRIVE and not just survive.

To get 3 free chapters from her book, go to http://bit.ly/tracy-booktoursignup

To connect with Tracy, email her private inbox at [email protected]

For dads, message [email protected]

Greg Menendez teaches people how the mind works - and then, they never look back! Greg can be found at likeneverbefore.co.nz

I have a Facebook community for stepmoms where I'd be glad to see you - join The Spectacular Stepmom by sending a join request to facebook.com/groups/thespectacularstepmom

If you're a dad, you can connect with me in 3 ways:

2. I'm on the private and anonymous Discord server at VisibleMan - use this link to join: https://discord.gg/vf9NTJ9TPz

3. I send weekly messages to my email community and I'd be glad to include you. Message me at [email protected]

"People sign up - we don't know who they are unless they tell us."

Jeff Hoffman and Jack Rollins invite you to join their anonymous "Visible Man" Discord server with this link:

Men and women are welcome! Men will be subsequently enrolled in a private men-only room by voice verification.

If you'd like to experience coaching first-hand, schedule a free session with me any time by popping into my calendar and grabbing the open spot that suits your schedule:

I'll set aside some time for you to help you untangle your big hairball of a situation. If you'd like to continue to work together after that, we can discuss how I can best serve your unique circumstances.